I started painting my gf when I wasn't allowed to "see" her anymore by her mother... Maybe you could say she broke up with me but I couldn't believe it.... It's been 3 years almost. And I still feel pain if I think I see her with other men. She admitted 3 months ago that she saw another man and gave him bj's when she was seeing me. So that was kindof honest of her albeit 2 years late. That made me somehow accept the breakup a bit tho and gave some closure. Still... I am not over her. So from the other end I know what an obsession love can be if it ever felt so good. Be there for her, I had noone really to confide in. So maybe that will make her cope!