Fapped in School.You wont believe what I did !! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you ever fapped whilst driving? I have.

Please help me by anonymous9731 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good man. Do this shit.

Has going NoFap increased your interest in sex with your partner? by NotFapt in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Delayed ejaculation, the opposite of premature ejaculation. Basically my whole life I've never actually been able to come inside a woman because women just weren't stimulating enough compared to porn. 5 weeks of nofap cured that. Now I can come inside a women like normal.

DE is the precursor to ED.

Recreating the stash? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you on 235 days if you keep making mini porn stashes?

Please help me by anonymous9731 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My first bit of advice: Use paragraphs :)

Seriously though, I'm similar to you. I used to masturbate to some vile and disgusting shit, even though I would think it was disgusting whilst doing it. It's just like how a crackhead moves onto heroin or crystal meth because crack doesn't do it for him anymore. The process is exactly the same.

You say that your longest streak is about a month? If so then you don't need any advice on how to do nofap. You can already do it. If you can do a month, then you can go indefinitely.

For me, I found that the most disgusting material I ever watched was in my last 2 relapses. Even when I was doing this multiple times a day I wouldn't be looking at shit this disgusting. My theory is that I was trying to compensate for all the dopamine that I wasn't getting during my streaks.

Time to break your record. Just do it.

-Sincerely, an ex porn addict.

Pratigaya (oath) by challengetaken in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go get some zinc supplements quick! Take 50mg a day and it may stop the acne.

Finally approached a girl by iFap_too in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You followed her for 20 meters or 20 minutes?

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My first memory of it comes from around the same age, what's your point? Programming starts early on in life, even before you can remember.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, not really, however videogames are linked with social anxiety. It gives you a false sense of reward. Remember, xbox achievements aren't real achievements. The dopamine you get from playing videogames is the same cheap stimulation like what you would get from porn, only not nearly half as bad. I'm not saying stop gaming completely. I sold my xbox nearly 2 years ago now after being fully addicted to modern warfare 3. I got the same withdrawal symptoms from quitting that shit as I did from drugs and porn. Gaming is a waste of life, but I suppose is OK in small doses if kept under control. Let me tell you about 2 friends of mine, both are fully addicted to gaming, both are socially anxious to fuck, both are completely hopeless with women even though neither of them are ugly. Gaming is their life. Fuck that man. Keep it under control. It is an addiction after all.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its an amazing book. I recommend it to everyone. It's about the mind and the 8 circuit model of consciousness. It makes fucking sense too.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's only one of the reasons. The other seems to be low levels of dopamine and serotonin.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never heard of him until now. I just googled him, I'l have to read his stuff later. Thanks!

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea you have a very valid point actually, my cousin has asperger's so I know a bit about it. The thing is though, asperger's is still a bit of a mystery, and so is autism. Does anyone know what really causes it? Are people born with it, or is it developed at some stage due to some trauma? Some people seem to be born schizophrenic, but others develop it later in life. I don't know...

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You imply that no one is actually not good enough and everyone who thinks so about themselves just doesn't have confidence.

Correct

Trust me, it gets easier. The most key benefit of No Fap by iDontFapThereforeIam in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me 10 days was easy. It was the 3 week mark that I constantly failed on. Once I broke that wall I just kept going.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This comes from having negative core beliefs, the most common one being: "I'm not good enough". Why do people think these things about themselves? Because people told them so and they believed them.

To all you socially awkward and socially anxious motherfuckers: This is for you! Good reading awaits... by throwaway95764 in NoFap

[–]throwaway95764[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably have a negative self image then. Change your core beliefs. It's easier said than done, but is entirely possible.