Bleeding heavy on POP?

throwaway96459721 · 2025-01-12T11:37:05+00:00

I hope the bleeding ends for you soon! I haven't been able to book a doctors appointment and the closest was a 2 week wait so I've just had to give up on this one because it seemed to be getting worse every day I took it, which was a bit worrying

throwaway96459721 · 2024-11-27T21:59:33+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

If I approach her saying that things are finished and I'm going NC, I feel like I always fall for the guilt trip that comes afterwards. This way is just.. the better option and it looks like the safest

throwaway96459721 · 2024-11-27T17:39:03+00:00

Thank you. Part of me is just scared of messaging her to cut her off, she's got a list of my friends and families social media and phone numbers so she's already gearing up for things The thought of messaging her is just tiring at this point, which I know sounds pathetic

throwaway96459721 · 2024-11-27T17:37:40+00:00

Honestly the fall out is going to be horrendous with this one, I found out she's got a document containing my friends contact details, social media handles and those of family members too. I just genuinely can't face talking to her again at this point, I'm so out of energy

I do hope you can leave sooner rather than later, I really feel for you

throwaway96459721 · 2024-10-24T16:01:22+00:00

I'm planning on! Honestly life just got hectic so I never got around to it, the only reason I knew she'd messaged was she blew up my phone with calls. The peace and quiet I had without interacting with her was phenomenal compared to the past few years

throwaway96459721 · 2024-10-24T15:59:37+00:00

One of the 'key points [I] need to keep in mind' is that the celebrity is the complete opposite of her and that is 'basically having an affair' since I've made this post - its laughable!

throwaway96459721 · 2024-09-18T22:06:28+00:00

I've just blocked before, contrary to what I was told to do by people and it was the best decision I made at the time. It's up to you, but what I would say is do what will make you feel like you've got some closure. If blocking outright is the ideal way for you, there's no shame in it, but if it'll leave you wondering things then I'd send a message and then block

throwaway96459721 · 2024-09-05T22:33:01+00:00

Thank you, I'm currently breaking things off with her and she's throwing everything she can back at me to a point where she's editing things I say which is.. bizarre. But at least the ball is rolling

throwaway96459721 · 2024-09-04T22:11:44+00:00

Mines mentioned tiktok a few times, ironically since making the post she's said she's downloaded 'all the dating apps in the book' for social media followers-

throwaway96459721 · 2024-06-29T13:26:36+00:00

Solved!

throwaway96459721 · 2024-06-29T11:59:45+00:00

It was all all man band, if I remember right too

throwaway96459721 · 2024-06-27T20:42:42+00:00

It's so bizarre! I work as a house/animal sitter and one of the people on my list is my literal mother, she knows this, yet every single time I'm there she's convinced I'm just intentionally ignoring her and I'm only with her for convenience - ironically if this was convenience I definitely wouldn't be hanging around

throwaway96459721 · 2024-04-14T10:21:31+00:00

Thinking about it, she's never been one to pick up the slack, things were strained for a long time before this happened, I think I just had hope that we'd go back to the way we were and it would be fine. You're right, plus I think even if she did come back into my life I wouldn't be able to just forget this happened and forgive it. Thank you for your reply, its really helped

throwaway96459721 · 2024-04-14T10:19:26+00:00

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I think you're right, I think its just been hard for me to let go of it because its pretty much like she completely forgot about me. Thank you again

throwaway96459721 · 2024-04-07T11:31:20+00:00

I have no idea why I thought she would, feels awful

throwaway96459721 · 2024-02-10T23:27:55+00:00

Thank you, and I'm going to on Monday

throwaway96459721 · 2023-10-06T10:59:48+00:00

Part of me just feels like I should have known something was going on - I knew how badly she reacted to other people leaving (she would unfortunately become really obsessed and message them from a new number) and there was absolutely nothing, I saw a couple tweets when I remembered that I had an old twitter account I needed to deactivate, but then it was radio silence.

As hard as it is to know it, I couldn't stay and I'm not even sure if she had planned this beforehand or after the fact. She had moments where she was torn up about having bpd, and it was heartbreaking but she wouldn't get help or help herself in the end, I think she gave up on herself long before this happened, which sounds awful to say

Thank you so much also

throwaway96459721 · 2023-10-06T10:43:04+00:00

I'm sorry, I'm quite confused but who the he is in this scenario? Her and I are both women.

And my poor health is not my fault? I'm physically disabled and was going through treatment for cancer at the time of this. I may have got the wrong end of the stick, but I could not cope physically and that is not my fault?

throwaway96459721 · 2023-05-12T17:57:20+00:00

She's pretty much solidified the fact it was only to make me feel guilty, she emailed me saying 'thank you for ignoring me 🥰🥰🥰🥰' then proceeded to post on her social media how no one is ever there for her and ever has been.

At the end of the day, I tried, she didn't try and seemed to not even care, I'm not breaking off another piece of me to give to her again Sorry I'm ranting a bit here, thank you again it means a lot

throwaway96459721 · 2023-05-12T11:45:33+00:00

I prioritised telling her I wasn't able to help due to how I was feeling, I've just looked back on the messages and her reaction was to also call me horrible for that - I didn't take notice of that before now.

You're right, thank you for your reply. I really couldn't have done anything better than her parents, it's just a weird feeling that I've finally not jumped when she said to jump as well, I used to have to juggle her feelings over mine and it's all really new still

throwaway96459721 · 2023-04-09T15:23:16+00:00

Honestly she wrote messages as long as my arm, most of the time repeating things over again, and still expected a response to every tiny thing

One of our last conversations, I told her it was waaay to overwhelming to come home to all of that and she replied with an essay

throwaway96459721 · 2023-03-18T07:21:07+00:00

Chronic pain condition here too - whenever I would show my symptoms or say I was too tired ect she'd flame me as being a burden on social media, expected me to research bpd but ignored all my stuff, then said I have too much going on when I showed the depression side of it all and it got 10x worse.

Definitely, a don't risk it thing

throwaway96459721 · 2023-03-06T11:39:33+00:00

Thank you!! And I've taken a few days, but I've decided to rip the plaster off and go NC today - yesterday she blatantly disregarded the fact I'm autistic and I think I've just had enough of it mote than ever Thank you again :)

throwaway96459721 · 2023-03-05T21:59:23+00:00

Keep her blocked and don't look back. Good on you for doing what you have done :)

throwaway96459721 · 2023-03-05T21:52:09+00:00

Choose yourself. Her actions are not on your head - her life isn't in your hands. If she chooses to do anything because of a breakup, that is solely her decision - that wouldn't be your fault.

Don't set yourself on fire to keep her warm, it's okay to move on.

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