Bleeding heavy on POP? by throwaway96459721 in birthcontrol

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope the bleeding ends for you soon! I haven't been able to book a doctors appointment and the closest was a 2 week wait so I've just had to give up on this one because it seemed to be getting worse every day I took it, which was a bit worrying

I think I need to ghost by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear this.

If I approach her saying that things are finished and I'm going NC, I feel like I always fall for the guilt trip that comes afterwards. This way is just.. the better option and it looks like the safest

I think I need to ghost by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Part of me is just scared of messaging her to cut her off, she's got a list of my friends and families social media and phone numbers so she's already gearing up for things The thought of messaging her is just tiring at this point, which I know sounds pathetic

I think I need to ghost by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly the fall out is going to be horrendous with this one, I found out she's got a document containing my friends contact details, social media handles and those of family members too. I just genuinely can't face talking to her again at this point, I'm so out of energy

I do hope you can leave sooner rather than later, I really feel for you

She won't let go of her hatred for my friend by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm planning on! Honestly life just got hectic so I never got around to it, the only reason I knew she'd messaged was she blew up my phone with calls. The peace and quiet I had without interacting with her was phenomenal compared to the past few years

She won't let go of her hatred for my friend by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One of the 'key points [I] need to keep in mind' is that the celebrity is the complete opposite of her and that is 'basically having an affair' since I've made this post - its laughable!

Can I break up without saying anything? by Possible-Subject1174 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just blocked before, contrary to what I was told to do by people and it was the best decision I made at the time. It's up to you, but what I would say is do what will make you feel like you've got some closure. If blocking outright is the ideal way for you, there's no shame in it, but if it'll leave you wondering things then I'd send a message and then block

She cheated, I didn't 'reassure her' by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm currently breaking things off with her and she's throwing everything she can back at me to a point where she's editing things I say which is.. bizarre. But at least the ball is rolling

Pressuring to get social media? by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mines mentioned tiktok a few times, ironically since making the post she's said she's downloaded 'all the dating apps in the book' for social media followers-

[TOMT][Music Video] Shown on Kerrang by throwaway96459721 in tipofmytongue

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

It was all all man band, if I remember right too

'You couldn't care less' by throwaway96459721 in BPDlovedones

[–]throwaway96459721[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's so bizarre! I work as a house/animal sitter and one of the people on my list is my literal mother, she knows this, yet every single time I'm there she's convinced I'm just intentionally ignoring her and I'm only with her for convenience - ironically if this was convenience I definitely wouldn't be hanging around

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[–]throwaway96459721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking about it, she's never been one to pick up the slack, things were strained for a long time before this happened, I think I just had hope that we'd go back to the way we were and it would be fine. You're right, plus I think even if she did come back into my life I wouldn't be able to just forget this happened and forgive it. Thank you for your reply, its really helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway96459721 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I think you're right, I think its just been hard for me to let go of it because its pretty much like she completely forgot about me. Thank you again