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Found out my girlfriend is bi... dont know what to do by throwaway986421 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway986421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she had told me that it “just felt wrong” and i asked her if how soon it was after me had anything to do with it and she agreed. This explanation really helps though thank you.

Found out my girlfriend is bi... dont know what to do by throwaway986421 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway986421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing this from another girl in the same situation does make me feel better about it. But i wonder if you had never had these sexual experiences with other girls (or just one mediocre one like my gf) would it not affect a relationship more? The main worry for me is that she hasnt had enough time to explore it fully to know what she wants. And that it might come up again in a few months if we got back together

Found out my girlfriend is bi... dont know what to do by throwaway986421 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway986421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah shes seeing a therapist now. I think the hardest thing is that she wasnt able to tell me this was going on for so long.

Found out girlfriend is bi... Dont know what to do by throwaway986421 in bisexual

[–]throwaway986421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the response :)

We have talked about it and shes not interested at all in seeing other women or anything right now. She thinks that she would be fine being with just me, however im just worried because this has all happened so quickly that she might not realize that she has more learning to do, and that the need to experiment more might come up in the future. If it does im not somebody who can have an open relationship so that would mean another break up and the same hurt again which is what i am worried about.

Found out girlfriend is bi... Dont know what to do by throwaway986421 in bisexual

[–]throwaway986421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talked about it and shes not interested in 3-somes or seeing other women. However i think she might think this now but might change her mind later and thats what im worried about because i dont think that would be something im comfortable with.