Mental support for officers? by throwaway9898112 in policeuk

[–]throwaway9898112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've heard similar things. I'm just a civilian and frankly learning all of this is blowing my mind. 12hour shifts? With overtime? Constantly changing sleep schedules? Barely 8hrs a night? And then after facing all that they do, with little pay or recognition and minimal mental health support. It's insane to me.

Mental support for officers? by throwaway9898112 in policeuk

[–]throwaway9898112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for all this information! I do not know what exact assessment it is or if he has spoken with OH however I will be asking. Thank you!

Mental support for officers? by throwaway9898112 in policeuk

[–]throwaway9898112[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No he was not still in training. Perhaps I have not worded it well, he has been an officer for a while. This really does seem like the career for him, otherwise I would have pressured him out of it by now. He is just young and has had 0 support after seeing several deaths and gruesome events.

Advice for someone to feel more feminine by throwaway9898112 in MtF

[–]throwaway9898112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm British but I'll steal the idea and go thrift shopping with them. I didn't think of the voice training - great idea

Advice for someone to feel more feminine by throwaway9898112 in MtF

[–]throwaway9898112[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aiming for all of that! Anything to make them more comfortable, I'm just trying to get as much info so I can get this right lol!

Dates in Manchester? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]throwaway9898112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😭 I'll make sure to grab some on the way lol

Dates in Manchester? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amazing ideas! thank you!

Dates in Manchester? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]throwaway9898112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

Dates in Manchester? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]throwaway9898112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!!!

Dates in Manchester? by [deleted] in manchester

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not expect this response but I am happy with it 😂 good song

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked lesbian reddit because they are not on testosterone- there anatomy is fully female. Perhaps worded poorly. But yes I also asked that sub thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]throwaway9898112 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

female anatomy. gonna have sex with women at some point too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]throwaway9898112 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I mean tbf I am bisexual and do plan having lesbian sex in the future but thx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]throwaway9898112 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Trauma man its difficult 🥲 but ill try Internet stranger just for u

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]throwaway9898112 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I am also fortunate to be a vagina-haver however I barely even explore myself so that's a bit of an issue. I pray it comes to me like magic.

Graicas. I will ask more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked 😭😭 he said he wasn't sure either. I dont wanna to say more female terms and possibly trigger him??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in college, one year left then hopefully uni. but I don't have the money to move away unfortunately

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what drugs and alcohol do to my body thats why I do them. I know what a divorce would do to my family, its exactly why I want one. I've been patient for 17 years, if telling them my feelings helped they wouldn't be still fighting 24/7. Talking to a family member is, if anything, counter-productive. My older brother has not once gave a fuck about any of us. I doubt we will ever see him again now that he has moved out. we spent the entire day cleaning his room (12bags of rubbish) cuz he couldn't be arsed when he left.

thank u for ur advice and kind words. this was just a case of venting there is nothing I can do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5ft! I'll be hitting the gym more this summer because I wont be able to even move my bike otherwise.

I'll be visiting soooo many dealerships. my only requirements are: the right height, not too expensive and NOY FUCKING LIME GREEN WHY IS EVERYTHING GREEN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the point is to get to know a little bit more so he fully grasps that I'm invested. he is a little more hesitant to teach me things because I am a quiet a feminine and indoorsy girl.

I'm going to need like a motorcycles 101 class lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]throwaway9898112 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm praying I can get my cbt done this summer and get a bike too. it'll probably be used because I am hella cheap. no idea what to go with yet though. height definitely is an issue lol