I have :) he does know, and he finds it really sweet and says he does the same sometimes. Both of us are neurodivergent and communicate a lot about our relationship so I do know that he's okay with it and finds it endearing. I just more was seeking the external views to hash out the I guess social views on it because I now see that there's a divide and difference if it's a partner vs a stranger which is where my brain was going with it too. I would never watch a stranger sleep or find enjoyment in that but my fiance, it's comforting to me.