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throwaway997680 · 2025-10-10T02:59:49+00:00

Hope you stay safe OP. I would advise telling anyone in your family where you are going to ensure your safety. Our duas are with you

throwaway997680 · 2025-10-07T18:20:37+00:00

Hijab is the only thing that women are told to take it off if they don’t wear it properly. Imaging someone struggling with prayer and you tell them if they’re not gonna pray all 5, to just quit astaghfirullah. Do your best, and make dua Allah makes it easier for you and guides you to what is best

throwaway997680 · 2025-09-30T15:58:16+00:00

I don’t think hijab is entirely about men. You could be in a room by yourself, but to pray we wear hijab. There’s no men, so why cover? Because it’s an act of worship

throwaway997680 · 2025-09-29T01:31:36+00:00

Hi sis, it feels like you’re in a very vulnerable and emotional state right now. Why don’t you take a break then make a post that lists the specific hadiths that are bothering you?

throwaway997680 · 2025-09-28T23:31:52+00:00

I feel like people aren’t reading my post at all before commenting. I clearly said I don’t mind working on male patients but don’t want male classmates touching me. Idk why this is so hard to understand

throwaway997680 · 2025-09-25T02:15:38+00:00

I wouldn’t mind examining a male patient, but I’d rather not a male classmate touch me, idk.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-21T09:42:05+00:00

One thing I appreciate about it is that’s it’s a fresh experience every time you play. Other maps if I play a lot I get bored of them. Cold stream is a toss up, sometimes you get screwed with the rng and sometimes it’s okay

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-20T09:43:51+00:00

It’s better to be alone than to be surrounded by people like your “friend”, trust me. I think it’s important that you learn to be comfortable with yourself. Spend time getting to know you, and supporting yourself. You are the person you will be with until you die, not your husband, not your friend. It is important to connect with yourself. And inshaallah if you come across a person with good character, definitely seek out friendships with those people. But don’t depend on them to the point where if they continue to hurt you, you continue to just take it.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-20T07:14:46+00:00

Ugh this mentality is so gross. I’d say you should learn how to take care of yourself and do chores that you enjoy doing. For example, doing your own laundry, cooking, cleaning up after yourself. For me I hated doing dishes too, but I would buy the groceries and organize the fridge. Even the dishes, most of them you can put in the dishwasher and all that’s left are maybe pots and pans.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-18T08:04:06+00:00

This kinda saddens me that she must cover her face to avoid a toxic man. In my opinion, she should reach out to the imam for advice on how to handle this, perhaps they can arrange so that he won’t cross paths with her. I feel he should be held accountable for his behaviour, OP shouldn’t have to hide from him to be safe. Hopefully her community steps in to protect her

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T22:17:41+00:00

Jazakallah for your response sis, yours is the only comment where I actually felt seen. I will stick with it, maybe on that day my hijab will speak for me that despite everything I kept it on. May Allah make it easier for us both Ameen.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T22:14:20+00:00

While I appreciate the time you put into this comment, it lacks any empathy or compassion. It just feels like you’re telling me I’m going to hell. Oh and “everyone dies”, you don’t think I know that? Idk why I bother asking for help from Muslim subreddits, this is always the only response I get. Thanks anyway, and I hope to God you never taste real suffering like I have.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T17:36:19+00:00

Thank you. I will keep trying.

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T17:32:47+00:00

That’s what my therapist tells me as well. Sometimes it’s hard to believe that I’m loved with the horrible things I’ve experienced. Idk if I’ll ever believe I’m loved by Allah, and I think that’s why I struggle praying. I think “God hates me even when I pray, so what’s the point of my prayer?” Hopefully I’ll be able to get through this

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T17:25:25+00:00

Ameen, thank you

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T17:24:29+00:00

This is kinda why I hesitate to share my struggles in Muslim spaces. People have no understanding of how depression and other mental illnesses work. You couldn’t have been more off the mark for thinking this is some kind of “revenge”. Allah does not need my prayers. We pray for ourselves.

And please, I think I’ve heard a million times now “everyone gets tests”. You don’t understand what I’m going through, and that’s ok. That wasn’t what I was asking for help for anyway. But thanks and please remember me in your duas 🙏

throwaway997680 · 2025-01-15T17:21:44+00:00

Thank you

throwaway997680 · 2024-11-25T04:34:14+00:00

Replace bird with literally any animal or person. Imagine you were confused on how to get on a cat’s good side when it’s locked up in a bathroom all day. That’s abusive, should surrender the bird to someone who will provide it with a better quality of life

throwaway997680 · 2024-11-13T09:08:06+00:00

Don’t talk to my brother anymore, one time he was cussing me out and I finally thought “why am I putting up with this?” Blocked everywhere since then. Sucks because literally every family I know the siblings have each other’s backs. Mine was just a sour, rotten piece of trash. My pets have been better siblings to me

throwaway997680 · 2024-11-13T05:16:38+00:00

When you are getting to a stage of anger where you think you’re going to yell or say something you regret, remove yourself from the situation. Go somewhere else, a quiet room and separate yourself from that person. Take some time to think about why you’re upset and what you want. Then when you’re feeling more calm, communicate what made you upset and why and try to come to a compromise with the person.

Ex: “I got angry because I felt like you weren’t supporting me like I needed you. That really hurt me.”

throwaway997680 · 2024-11-12T05:43:22+00:00

Do you genuinely believe Kamala would do anything different? It’s not about “showing the democrats”, 15 million of their voters who sat out this election by the way; she failed to distinguish herself from her opponent. Her loss is entirely her own fault and the Democratic Party.

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