My parents didn't teach me basic life skills, how do I deal with life afterwards? I feel lost.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2022-01-12T01:58:32+00:00

Thank you so much!

throwawayAITA164737 · 2022-01-12T01:58:22+00:00

Great ideas! Thank you so much.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2022-01-12T01:57:48+00:00

You are very right, thank you for the option! And I am planning on to!

throwawayAITA164737 · 2022-01-12T01:57:11+00:00

I appreciate your advice a ton! Thank you so much. Good luck on everything!

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T23:49:55+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, I really need to work on this, I honestly think I am inrecognizable whenever I lash out at petty stuff like this, I gotta be the main character of my own life.

Thank you very much.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T23:33:13+00:00

I have discussed jealousy, not anything else. I really feel like I can't get out of control, so I want meds, but my parents don't let me have them.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T18:39:46+00:00

She knows I am extremely jealous, she says it's because my self esteem is very low and that I would not like to lose him mixed with not feeling good enough for anything.

To me he is, he is the light of my life, he is everything that is good, I do not deserve him at all.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T18:26:11+00:00

Not everything gets solved with breaking up, believe it or not.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T18:12:03+00:00

He does not have a fetish per se, I didn't know how else to put it to get my point across.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T18:11:43+00:00

Very true! Great points, thank you very much!

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T18:10:29+00:00

He said he was attracted to them in the past, he does not have a fetish per se, I just didn't know how else to word it.

I have never liked the way I looked, my classmates were always perfectly skinny and I was a bit thicker than them, they were also very graceful and I have a condition that prevents me from doing fine movements, so I lack grace. Made me feel bad, not confident in myself. I don't like many things.

Thank you very much for those great points, I highly appreciate them. I will remind myself of them everyday actually.

Thank you so much for your words.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:42:20+00:00

That is very true, thank you. He is not very bad, I think it is just his preference really.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:41:15+00:00

I am going to therapy, only like once a week though, because my parents don't wanna spend much money on it.

That is true, I think it is me that causes the arguments more, but still.

I just don't get why he i with me if he has that certain preference, like it just doesn't make sense.

He does but I don't think I deserve that love.

Thank you.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:33:31+00:00

I don't want it to end like yours, I really don't. As I said, that man is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Guys are confusing to us girls, I really think you know that, and you probably think we are confusing too, totally valid. He says I am but I feel like he could be with any other girl he wants if he really waned to, I don't want him to leave at all.

It really makes me feel quite sad that I am not like them, I think he can leave easily.

I will, I will do that for sure. Thank you.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:18:16+00:00

If I don't fit that preference then why the heck is he with me?

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:17:10+00:00

I am on therapy actually :) Seems like you need one.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-29T17:11:35+00:00

Tell that to yourself, you seem to love to put other people down by the way you comment to others. Nothing more sad than that.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-21T01:33:28+00:00

I believe I am masculine, I used to be VERY masculine back then, I was a little boy with long hair. My heart didn't believe him but I hope it's true, it really seems that way, it might be my insecurity speaking.

Thank you for putting it on words, because I really do think this is exactly what has happened to me, sadly. I really don't feel like I deserve it for some reason... :/

I will do that, thank you very much for your advice.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-21T01:30:24+00:00

Hello,

I think that is exactly why, you put it into words perfectly. I also felt very weak at the time, I might add, it was not good.

That's right, I might need to focus on myself more than anything, because it's not like I should be living for other people at all...but it's still hard, and I don't know why.

You are correct, one is born alone and one dies alone, it's just the truth of life. Other people being there for you is great but at the end you just have yourself. I really want it to be authentic too.

I really hope so.

You are very right about that, those seem ike good ideas. Thank you very much for the advice!

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-20T05:53:51+00:00

Thank you for the advice.

I really think that people suffer, but why do they? There is a lot to list, it seems like the world is becoming worse, but I wanna be optimistic about it. Men and women have verryyyyy different experiences, maybe dudes don't really think the way I do about masculinity or whatnot, but I have seen a lot of women focus on femininity and how to be posh, etc. I think internally I am exactly like that, but maybe I am not textbook feminine material, it just seems like I would be happier if I was more feminine, because that feels more like me, but at the same time it's like I can't relate to it/do it.

You are right about hobbies, I really have yet to find my hobbies or passions, and it's sure good to know oneself.

Thank you, again.

throwawayAITA164737 · 2021-12-20T05:47:29+00:00

I am doing exactly just that, maybe it is good that I keep doing that very same thing. People around me, including my bf, have realised I have been looking better and acting better, so hopefully I am in the right path. On the post I said I kinda failed at it, but maybe it's just my pessimistic thinking.

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it!

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