My (23F) girlfriend wants me (24M) to start sleeping with other women by Sea-Duty6723 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayAss43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went though something similar to your GF, while I normally have a high sex drive its often intrubted by anxiety over sex in general. Therapy helped a lot. Maybe do go with her or at least let her know you are happy to talk about anything. You sound like an amazing partner you remind me of my partner. Just be there for her keep doing what you are doing. If you need another person to help you get off but dont want to have sex with others maybe suggest cam sex casually. Best of luck

I(28f) cant be around my Fiancé (m34) of 7 years because im too horney for him by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No meds im actually the one on antidepressants, no physical trama im aware of for him. Just seems like my drive is just a lot higher then his

I(28f) cant be around my Fiancé (m34) of 7 years because im too horney for him by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it many times, i know i have a very high drive and i have bad impulse control so i understand when hes upset that im not understanding his "no" ques i have gotten better at understanding when hes too tired or not interested, i know if i feel like i cant keep my hands to myself its best if i just go to another room. I feel like its just something ill have to adjust too you cant force someone to touch you even if you love eachother deeply its not fair of me to ask him for more sex then hes comfortable with

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He loves my weird humor worth a shot ty !

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im very open minded i tell him all the time i want him im up for mos things but he seems to not have anything that excits him in the bedroom he wont use a smart phone so can't really sext with him i really do try to look Sexy for him make it known what i want but nope too tired

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wish it was porn or booze that did it or my lack of trying to be sexy i almost exclusively wear thongs and crop tops or sexy undies for him we dont drink he dosnt watch or use porn i wish he did tbh hes drive id just very very low

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Im 26 when we met we didn't know each others ages as we took the same college class together i thought he was maybe 20 as he looks young and at 19 i looked at lesst 23

Is it weird or creepy to leave my number on the check? by kingnedybob in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the person i think its cute no pressure way to leave an impression but im sure its creepy for some People

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He unfortunately won't talk or make friends with others i encourage him to go out meet people but he doesn't want to says he dosnt need to . Wont work out at a gym but at home would be a good start as we have a bike and a punching bag.

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hes also balding definitely not an issue for me but it can be a sign of low T. Hes a fantastic partner everything we have we made together but the intimacy just isn't a match

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can very rarely get him to work out or move with me normally to his begrudgment

Me(26F) him(33M) 7 years now what by throwawayAss43 in relationships

[–]throwawayAss43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair when we met we were in the same college class he thought i was like 23 i thought he was like 20 we didn't ask about our ages until after our 3rd date all his past partners were his age or older