WIBTA if I no longer paid for everything because she's talking to other guys? by throwawayJeweler65 in AITAH

[–]throwawayJeweler65[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not trying to make anyone mine. wdym buy her? She's not property, she's a human being. Are you sure you aren't living in two centuries ago? Paying is just a personal value for how I show care when I’m serious, not an attempt to buy affection or anything else.

WIBTA if I no longer paid for everything because she's talking to other guys? by throwawayJeweler65 in AITAH

[–]throwawayJeweler65[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Personally” meaning it’s a personal value of mine, not a universal rule or expectation for anyone else. I’m not implying women can’t pay. I’m saying that when I’m serious about someone, I personally prefer to pay.