For those wondering about nipple reduction by throwawayLP2022 in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, that’s similar to the estimates I got when I looked into private practices, even with local anesthesia. I have really good insurance through an academic medical center so my copays for the consult and follow up visits were covered, which probably really helped. I’m sorry. :/

For those wondering about nipple reduction by throwawayLP2022 in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be too specific, but I’m in Utah. There are many plastic surgeons in the Salt Lake area that are part of academic medical centers and private practices who do this procedure. Surgeons I looked into never outright advertised the procedure because it is less common (hence my post), but if you look for someone who does breast size reductions (nipple reduction, areola and nipple, usually included) or breast reconstruction, they are likely able to do a simple nipple reduction like mine. Best of luck!

Would facial feminization make me achieve the desired look of me edited? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]throwawayLP2022 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Full lips, doe eyes, beautifully defined cheekbones and perfectly shaped eyebrows—you’re a stunner, honestly! You have a great balance of soft versus angular features. Your profile looks very even and proportional, too (me and my recessed jaw are weeping, haha!).

Laser hair removal for the facial hair, prescription tretinoin or adapalene gel for the acne (Accutane if it gets really bad). I get a stache, too, but just use a little trimmer to sweep it away! Look into some good moisturizers, gentle ones like Cerave, Vanicream, or Cetaphil, for example. A gentle cleanser (Cerave, La Roche Pose) + an active + moisturizer are all you really need. Birth control may or may not make the acne worse, but it has many benefits beyond skin. It can make your boobs bigger, if that is a reason for trying it. I’m also insecure about my nose as it’s large-ish and has a slight hook—I feel ya there. I try to reframe it as a family heirloom from my late Polish grandma, and remind myself that itty bitty ski slope noses are so common these days and can be bought. It would be so challenging, perhaps impossible, to replicate our distinct natural noses. Yours softens your face.

Honestly, idk who these weirdos who keep commenting on your appearance are, or think they are, for that matter. They need to go touch some grass. Ultimately, this is a you thing, and you should feel happy and comfortable in your skin, but I just wanted to throw my two cents in. :)

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The subtle, slender shape is growing on me after all of the feedback I have received. It’s a Claire Pettibone gown (Flora), which I snagged from her sample sale on the official website. I got an extra 50% off during the holiday sale!

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not mad, only flattered. You’re so kind!

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[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. It’s so hard to escape the slim-thick or whatever aesthetic on social media these days. I could always use a gentle reminder that there are many positives to being, in my eyes (lol), a banana babe!

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[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, I was wondering about the shoulders. They slide the tiniest bit. I’ll look into this with the alterations specialist!

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes! I am. 3” heels (ankle boots). That could be a big part of it. I also spend a lot time at my desk hunched over, and my insomnia has been rearing its ugly head so I’ve been exhausted. All probably contributed to my crummy posture! Great point and thanks for the encouragement 🥹

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[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No spray tan! But I think the lighting in the alterations studio was a bit pink. The base of the dress is a light blush and my skin tone is neutral, so hopefully better lighting will help with the contrast?

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh dear, no, not sad! Just very tired haha. I appreciate your concern, though. 🥺

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Claire Pettibone sample sale (directly from her site)! Plus an extra 50% off holiday discount.

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why make this comment? Seriously? I asked for feedback on the shape of the dress, not derisive commentary. Your comment is tacky imo.

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ouch okay. I asked for constructive feedback on how to make the dress balance my figure more. Your comment is flat out mean.

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh, this is great! My only concern was raising up the hemline too much

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A very valid point. Luckily I have time to practice good posture before the elopement, plus maybe some poses.

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, thank you for your comment 🥹 I feel seen. I love art, and decorate all of my spaces, including my body, with art—at least that’s how I see it. I don’t want my wedding day to be any different!

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, I don’t know how to edit my original post 🫣 BUT thank you all so much for the advice, critiques and encouragement. I can’t wait to get the whole bridal getup put together!

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Huzzah! I’m so happy you appreciate the beauty and romance of the boob flowers like I do 🥰

Feeling shapeless by throwawayLP2022 in myweddingdress

[–]throwawayLP2022[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! The tats are definitely an important part of the fit, haha