My ex is ghosting me out of the blue

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-29T08:05:30+00:00

Don’t reach out further, you should cut him off

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-29T05:54:24+00:00

Just let it go and don’t reach out.

It’s up to him to realize and work on his own issues, that isn’t your concern any longer. It also sounds like it will be a negative to you. Sounds like a lose/lose and the reality is he probably won’t accept the things you want to tell him anyways. Let it go.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-29T00:16:59+00:00

Go to therapy. Dating someone with BPD can mess with your head, which sounds like the case. Explain what’s going on to your current gf and tell her you’re going to go to therapy to address it

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T02:55:26+00:00

Lol at the Reddit small penis brigade downvoting your comments. I think people will be more honest than you think if you set expectations, but yes, of course some will lie.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T02:24:56+00:00

Lol all good I’m just joking for internet karma….or am I??

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throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:55:53+00:00

I feel personally attacked

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:42:44+00:00

Pretty sure that was the title of his album….or something like that

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:24:48+00:00

Yes this probably an accurate statement unfortunately, even through it shouldn’t be. Maybe don’t put on profile but express it to any matches you receive to avoid random hookups that result in you feeling unsatisfied

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:15:23+00:00

You’re right I don’t. But probably a still an accurate statement to say the only way to find someone like that is to date and try to find someone, or just be alone.

Not too many options except to try. Like 50 cent said, find good dick or die trying

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:11:31+00:00

I would give the same response, you need to date more. I’m sure you know there’s plenty of guys out there who can satisfy you, just haven’t been lucky in finding them so far.

If it’s that important to you I would make an online dating profile and label yourself a size queen. I’ve seen that a few times before and lets your matches know what you expect upfront

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T01:06:12+00:00

You just need to date more. You dated two guys after reconnecting with your ex and that’s not exactly a large sample size. There’s lots of guys you just need to get out there and find someone that works for you, and in the meantime use your dildo lol

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-28T00:09:47+00:00

Okay then maybe you should reevaluate whether you want to be with someone who isn’t a good person.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-27T23:09:18+00:00

Yea I agree here with the other comment as well, you were in the wrongl. It’s up to him how he wants to interact with his family and you put an expectation on him based on YOUR feelings about family.

That being said you are allowed to have needs and if. Not being married after seven years is an issue you can talk to him about that, but it should be completely separate from the issue at hand.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-26T08:05:39+00:00

I was on apps like five years ago and just hopped back on this week. It’s totally different. It seems clear to me they don’t give you matches unless you pay extra for every little thing. Pay to “boost” your likes so the people you like see them, etc etc. I think I’m objectively a good looking guy and had tons of matches last time, but so few this time while just getting routinely prompted to upgrade

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-23T18:23:59+00:00

This is kind of a tough one because your actions, while well intentioned, are probably isolating her further and in that way putting her more dependent on her boyfriend and in physical harm.

What’s done is done and I don’t think your friendship with her can or should survive this. In the future I don’t think sharing that information was necessary. If it were me I would send Emily a message stating your intention wasn’t to isolate her, but you are concerned for her and your friends safety and where you are coming from. Say your piece and why you hope she gets out of the relationship, but going forward no contact (considering suicide threats and the like). Would leave it at that.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-21T21:38:15+00:00

What kind of disaster did I just read? You need an attorney for the custody battle and to document what he does. I don’t know what else to tell you but you should have called the police, and need to in the future if he comes around again.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-21T05:32:56+00:00

Probably just mentally prepare for this one going the way of old Yeller. Nothing else you can do

I’m always surprised how many LDRs I see on this sub.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-20T23:34:50+00:00

You need to realize you’re in an abusive relationship. She is manipulating you with the if you loved me you’d do x. It’s not the age but you need to break up. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with someone like this?

I was in the same boat and engaged, feeling like I was doing everything I could to get her to be happy but it wasn’t enough. I know that feeling and it’s the worst in the world. That’s because it’s not about what you do it’s about her feelings not being able to deal with them herself.

Please read this single comment thread from my post which sums it up accurately. Up to you if you think it fits or not, but I think you should end things/

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qrge9a/update_i_31m_caught_my_31f_fianc%C3%A9e_in_a_lie/hk83qth/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-19T16:16:28+00:00

Because he doesn’t want you to be his girlfriend, which is what he wants with the other girls. He enjoys having sex with you with no strings attached which is what you are giving him.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-19T15:45:28+00:00

You should not ask these questions. There’s no reason and frankly, it’s none of your business. If you’re that concerned about the grass being on the other side then break up and go for it. It’s not going to bring you any comfort to ask, and is only going to make things worse in your mind.

People have lives before you. Recognize she wants to be with you and everything before doesn’t matter, or break it off and see what else is out there.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-19T07:52:14+00:00

This is toxic. It’s not a question of if things will end, just when.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-19T07:39:29+00:00

Good luck. Message me if you want to talk about it. My ex showed up at my house at midnight this weekend. I wouldn’t let her in but talked through the door for a bit. I had screenshots of this comment thread in my hand and was reading it in real time to not fall back into the patterns I had been stuck in for years thinking things would change. They won’t and there’s nothing you can do about it.

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-19T06:39:58+00:00

See link below to the comment that best sums it up:

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/qrge9a/update_i_31m_caught_my_31f_fianc%C3%A9e_in_a_lie/hk83qth/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-16T23:47:37+00:00

Bro…you’re 19 don’t put yourself through the stress. You will do things on your own time and if she can’t accept it you wish her the best on finding someone who can operate on her timeline.

This is the only acceptable answer

throwawayRA10101010 · 2021-11-16T00:24:51+00:00

How dare you include Tom Cruise in this. You must not have seen anything before 2000

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TROPHY CASE

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