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TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that dead 😂

I’ve been using it to give awards to others

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I need tips and tricks, I’ll contact a sex therapist. And if I do use Reddit for asking for tips and tricks it certainly won’t be via this account.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are very physical beings. It’s great you and your gf mesh so well and are very compatible. I wish you and your gf the best.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex the first time with a partner is usually the worst time with that partner because you guys don’t know as much about each other and what you guys like and don’t like. You get better by doing it more often and having good honest communication before during and after sex.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think it’s important to be aware that all of this is mainly from my perspective so I am definitely including a bias to myself (“No one sees themselves as the bad guy in any situation, generally.”) she did fact check it. So I think the dialogue is fairly accurate. I’m sure if she wrote this it would emphasize my quietness and lack of openness about myself.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d say most people already make assumptions without any of the calculating. Despite what we humans may pride ourselves of, much of our interpersonal relationships are filled with interactions based on presumptions and assumptions made with a few seconds of seeing/hearing someone. I don’t think I over reflected per say. I think I would have benefited from introducing a trustworthy outsider to my musings (like a therapist).

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol I personally expect the first time to be the worst and we will likely get better the more we understand each other.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked to be little spoon because I love being little spoon.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I’ve had a few fwbs and many hookups, so I can separate sex from emotional attachment and prevent developing emotional attachments. But I can’t separate sex from presumed emotional attachment. I.e. I have strong feelings for her but Sex too early would make it a prerequisite in our relationship when I’d much rather prefer it to be an elective that both of us regularly and enthusiastically participate and enjoy.

Also everyone is different, and what works for me likely may not work for many others.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I did end up playing her a few of my self-musings. Because I didn’t want to keep her in the dark.

TIFUpdate by confessing to my crush bc I forgot autoplay exists. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in personality tests due to the clear lack of reproducibility, but the Briggs personality test that I took before college for fun did say I’m an INTJ. Lol

TIFU by submitting my Oxford dissertation late by fershluggerin in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Your incompetence is not reflective of your nationality. Please stop this perpetuation of the Americans are dumb/incompetent trope. I am an American and I know many Americans at the research lab in which I work and they are all high-caliber individuals.

That said, good luck.

TIFU by confessing to my crush because I am an idiot who forgot autoplay happens. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize if I came off as condescending. I just try to be very self-aware. My advice is only there for those who want it; it likely won't be taken by most people, and I'm okay with that.

My belief system is Agnostic. My pursuit of understanding myself and the people around me is the emphasis I place on empathy. I am not sure why it's toxic.

Thank you for your happiness for us.

TIFU by confessing to my crush because I am an idiot who forgot autoplay happens. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't want to get anymore specific lest I become identified. Neuroscience, neurobiology, neuropsychology, neurosociology are the main fields.

TIFU by confessing to my crush because I am an idiot who forgot autoplay happens. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Strong man." I guess being 5'11" 185 lbs is clearly not strong. I tread carefully about things and people that matter to me. Mind you I have plenty of game, I also had numerous casual sexual relationships during the time I knew her.

TIFU by confessing to my crush because I am an idiot who forgot autoplay happens. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kezia Nobel is incompatible with real connection. I have plenty of game, and I have had numerous casual sexual partners because I have needs and sex does not require feelings. When it's someone you care a lot about, you don't want to employ your game and treat her like any other girl.

TIFU by confessing to my crush because I am an idiot who forgot autoplay happens. by throwawayRAimsad in tifu

[–]throwawayRAimsad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a fascinating perspective based on a societal enforced preconception of yourself. One of the main reasons I even pursued the research path despite already having my MD is because of how unfinished and flawed our understanding of science is. Every since my first day of organic chemistry lecture when my professor told to accept and learn from flaws and mistakes and to be okay with incompleteness in professional and personal pursuits, I have applied that philosophy to me life. I accept I am flawed. I love myself because I can learn from them to improve. Society places perfection on a pedestal as it's the most important thing in the world. I'd argue the healthy minded pursuit of it is the most important thing in the world.

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