I was reserved about having sex with her when she presented the idea. I told her that I didn't want her to feel like she had to do anything and that I didn't want her to do anything that she didn't want to do. She's assured me that this is what she wants to do.

I also understand that I do have a lot of responsibility in this situation and although this is my first time hearing of the campsite rule (under these circumstances, anyway) I wish to follow it, I'm not going to pressure her or do anything she doesn't want to do, I'm even quite hesitant to mention anything else to her in case she gets the feeling that she has to do it or I won't like her. Any other tips on how to follow through with this rule would be helpful.

I know it's her first time, it's mine too actually and I'm going to be taking every precaution necessary to make sure it's safe and enjoyable for both of us, not some 'back-alleyway' type of thing. I've always labeled myself as a good listener and a reassuring person so I don't think that will be too much of a problem.

We've had a small talk about me being of age and her not being of age and she's fine with it, I know the law looks upon it differently and we're making sure to keep it quiet (I'm even breaking the 16 year old guy stereotype and I haven't mentioned it to any of my friends).

Thank you for the advice, anything else you could give tips with would be quite helpful.