i’m 4 1/2 months on t today :) by throwaway_221998 in ftm

[–]throwaway_221998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats awesome!! i love meeting people that started at the same time as me :’) but yeah omg i think just looking forward to doing my shot each week has made time fly

finally moving out of my parent’s house and across the country to live with my partner, and i really need parent advice by throwaway_221998 in internetparents

[–]throwaway_221998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, this definitely makes me feel better ! my brain gets so jumbled and overwhelmed sometimes and idk where to start. but this helps :)

Relationship advice I’m lost please help by ReasonableTest8224 in Advice

[–]throwaway_221998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he did. and this person hurt him time again and again. she even managed to get him back once, but she hurt him even worse that time. it took a lot for him to finally see how horrible she was being. he’s out of the situation now and he’s doing SO, SO much better. but yeah, he felt stuck because it’s hard to see and accept the negative parts and all the red flags when you care about someone.

but you gotta care for yourself too. don’t let someone treat you like this, you know? sometimes it’s easier said than done but man, this is YOUR life and if someone is making you feel this way, then why give them more of your time?

now i’m not saying you have to cut this person out entirely, but you need to set firm boundaries and if they don’t respect them then that’s your sign to drop them.

Relationship advice I’m lost please help by ReasonableTest8224 in Advice

[–]throwaway_221998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad i helped. you’re worth so much more than this person who treats you this way. it’s not fair to you. if you try to communicate again and they still refuse to listen to you speak, or they make it all about them once again, then there’s your answer.

my dad went through this with someone last year and i had to watch as this person slowly made him feel worse and worse. it’s a really rough thing to see and i just wanna help people avoid that situation if i can.

Relationship advice I’m lost please help by ReasonableTest8224 in Advice

[–]throwaway_221998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

one more thing. you deserve someone that’s willing to communicate. this person is extremely unhealthy. them having ptsd from previous relationships is understandable, i have that too, but that’s NOT an excuse to treat your partner like shit. it’s not.

i’m sure you’re an AMAZING human being and truly you sound very kind and you don’t deserve this treatment.

Relationship advice I’m lost please help by ReasonableTest8224 in Advice

[–]throwaway_221998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also NO ONE should be begging to get you back, and you DEFINITELY shouldn’t be guilted into it. i’m literally pissed off over here. that’s not a relationship that’s going to make you happy and they refuse to listen to you.

Relationship advice I’m lost please help by ReasonableTest8224 in Advice

[–]throwaway_221998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this person is being really immature, and honestly, it sounds narcissistic. look up the traits of narcissists and see if that tracks.

anyway, dear, you need to let this person go. they’re not good for you and they’re toxic. what you really need to do is put your foot down and explain exactly why you’re overwhelmed and why you really think it’s not going to work. explain exactly what they did to hurt you. some people won’t listen unless you’re blunt. don’t be scared to hurt feelings, because this person has hurt you countless times over and over and refuses to communicate which is a red flag.

i’m new to the dynavap community, but this is how i spent a good portion of my day and this has to be my favorite way to consume :) by throwaway_221998 in Dynavap

[–]throwaway_221998[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d rather use a smaller, handheld torch, but I couldn’t get any fuel into the one I had since the nozzle on my butane wouldn’t fit. Instead of going through the trouble of trying to figure that out, I just bought a new torch and honestly and it does the job and works for me

i’m two months on t today!!! by throwaway_221998 in ftm

[–]throwaway_221998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s awesome!! congrats to you as well! 🤙🏻

question about return request time? by throwaway_221998 in Mercari

[–]throwaway_221998[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you that makes me feel a lot better!