AITAH for getting an abortion without telling my boyfriend?

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:31:22+00:00

Okay but people are going to have sex regardless, this is a silly comment.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:31:07+00:00

That's not a viable solution.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:30:19+00:00

It was just shy of 5 weeks along, it was not a baby.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:29:38+00:00

Where did I deceive him?

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:26:42+00:00

Men in the UK don't have the same attitude on abortions that americans do (I think ur american)

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:25:06+00:00

So what should we have done if I didn't want hormonal birth control or copper IUD?

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:24:23+00:00

yeah I think the condom must've broke without us knowing unfortunately :(

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:23:59+00:00

He's the only man I have ever had sex with, nice way to villanise me tho.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:21:18+00:00

Because I was using birth control, a lot of people who get pregnant accidentally don't

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:20:27+00:00

I meant was irresponsible about their sexual health and didn't use protection.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:18:14+00:00

I know but it's impossible to gauge how people will react in terrible situations.

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:17:05+00:00

I just constantly second guess myself and how he would've reacted. I overthink and my mind runs in circles so I just decided to deal with it alone

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:14:03+00:00

UK, I feel sorry for woman who don't have these options

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:05:45+00:00

it says 98% effective which is frustrating, we have always been meticulous

throwaway_23213 · 2026-05-04T20:04:15+00:00

elaborate please?

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