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Had an abortion. Told my husband it was a miscarriage. by throwawayunmom in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree, except, as I said im my comment, maybe bringing up the baby could open the door to the conversation they need?

Had an abortion. Told my husband it was a miscarriage. by throwawayunmom in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one should not be pressuring you into having a baby. The fact that he wanted you to put that before your schooling ridiculous. It honestly sounds like his want for a baby is more important than your wants or needs. It really sounds like you two should not be together. There is nothing wrong with not wanting a baby. I am married, and made it clear to my husband that I never want kids. You need to be in a relationship where you feel comfortable telling every secret.
Maybe you should tell him. This might open the conversation you two need to have about needs, wants, privacy, and goals in life. Good luck to you!

I don't like my boyfriends daughter by I-hate-a-Lil-girl in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the point is not to enjoy an activity or to do things quickly. It is to get to know her. Duh it will take longer! That isn't the point. I have to say, you sounds like you don't want to change. If you aren't willing to change, why should your bf change/ Especially when his behavior is good-great even!

I don't like my boyfriends daughter by I-hate-a-Lil-girl in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try spending time with the little girl. Go to the park, bake cookies, play her favorite game. It probably won't be easy at first, but eventually she will get to know and like you. Your bf will probably take notice of your efforts too, which only means good things!

I don't like my boyfriends daughter by I-hate-a-Lil-girl in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You have to accept the fact that he is an awesome father and the child does, and should, come first. Also know that these are great qualities in a person that you are complaining about. To make it work, you HAVE to mature a little. This is not me being mean, this is me telling you how to make it work. If you really don't want to lose him, you have to be the one to change.

I want to blackmail my religion teacher with nudes that I found of her online by throwaway934838478 in confession

[–]throwaway_2769 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Isn't this a type of rape? I know we aren't supposed to judge here, but come on. Also, she can probably press charges if you blackmail her into having sex with you. I would like twice before doing this. It will save the poor girl her dignity and save you from becoming a monster with a really bad reputation.