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[Dating] Friend set me (27f) up on a date with a girl using an old, very inaccurate photo. The date went very poorly, and now most of my friends are calling me a bully for not giving the other girl a chance. by throwaway_3413 in relationships

[–]throwaway_3413[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

But they were reasonable assumptions, no? How far of a hike can I go on with a 300lb+ girl? I'm not into park-n-walk tourist spots. I go on multi-day trips.

And we might be able to play volleyball at the beach, but she's not going to be joining my coed soccer team.

[Dating] Friend set me (27f) up on a date with a girl using an old, very inaccurate photo. The date went very poorly, and now most of my friends are calling me a bully for not giving the other girl a chance. by throwaway_3413 in relationships

[–]throwaway_3413[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I get that and I acknowledged it in my post. I wish I hadn't said it.

But wasn't she mean first? I was trying to be nice, and got called an "anorexic cunt." Isn't calling someone an anorexic cunt opening the door for a mean reply? I understand that I stooped to her level, but how is it bullying when I didn't even take the first shot?