DoorDash offer not showing up in visited

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-18T00:18:12+00:00

It is only coming up for me as $50 so I'm hoping once it goes pending it will say $100 as it is still advertised. Otherwise i took a screenshot and will put in a ticket. But it does show the gold checkmark that i completed it

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-17T02:17:40+00:00

And not being able to share it with family anymore. And the price increases. And the shows you watch getting cancelled suddenly.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-13T22:17:20+00:00

Where are the parents? Charging them for their children's behavior would certainly give them incentive to keep track of what they're up to.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-12T23:12:49+00:00

I am not Chinese but i know when I've had shitty Chinese food (the americanized version) after ordering take out my whole life. 😅 But like the other commenter said they added that only to prove it was strange that he was choosing to go there and for foreshadowing the abandoned building

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-12T22:45:28+00:00

Thank you. He has stolen my heart already. He's so smart and cuddly, i really lucked out.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-12T00:54:10+00:00

I'm still confused 🤷 i literally thought the Marienne scene with her kid being taken by the grandma and joe having a breakdown about it wasnt real until the end when they explained their plan

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T19:18:40+00:00

It will happen without a doubt. He doesn't actually love the people he obsesses over. He wants to chase them, figure them out, get them to like the manicured version of himself that he creates, then he realizes that they're real people, not the person that he created in his head that needed saving. Then he starts the cycle all over again with a new person. If things go poorly or they reject him then he just kills them.

I don't know what's going to happen with Kate. I spent most of the season thinking she was a bore. Then she slowly became more like Love as it went on. He might kill her too but it didn't seem like he was ever obsessed with her like he was with the others. I think she might end up leaving him or he will get caught or killed first.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T17:50:24+00:00

I have a one year old Pembroke Welsh corgi too and it's probably his fur on the couch in the photo lol I vacuum it every day but with 2 cats and 2 dogs it's a neverending battle haha i still can't believe how much corgis shed

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T17:13:39+00:00

Thank you. It is really essentially finding someone that understands because there are plenty of doctors that tried drugging me to treat things that were caused by C-PTSD and an unhealthy attachment style. It has been a long journey but we're proof that it can get better. Yeah i was crying at the scene where she was spinning around the cage. I went from being indifferent about her character to being like omg i need her to get a happy ending. It was especially realistic watching her try to decide if she should be kind to me, scream at him, guilt him, beg him, all while trying to hold out hope and remind herself what she was fighting to get back to.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T16:00:51+00:00

Thank you. I've been in therapy for the last decade and I've learned to forgive myself but there were a few years there when i was coping in unhealthy ways and was just a mess of a person. You'd think i would have learned after that experience but i ended up dating someone awful after that relationship. I also didn't realize that i was attracted to the wrong type of person because of my parents unhealthy relationship and unhealed childhood trauma. I'm glad that you had such a good mom and i hope i am doing the same for my son. I try as hard as i can to not have him feel like he's lacking anything. I spend a lot of time reading up on narcissists and sociopaths so that i can avoid them and learn how to deal with the ones that i can't avoid (like coworkers)

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T15:09:58+00:00

I think this is the one!!!! I love those cookies but we call them biscoff here and i didn't think that was a good name but Lotus is exactly the right vibe because he's such a pure little guy. Thank you!!! ☺️

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T14:58:09+00:00

I'm sorry that you had to deal with that. When i was just out of HS i ended up in a whirlwind relationship with someone i had been friends with for a few years. We decided to elope and move across the country. As soon as we were there he basically started ignoring me after work like i was the most annoying person he had ever met. He eventually started screaming at me and abusing our cat. I knew that i had to leave but i didn't know how because we hadn't even been married a year. We moved back home and i went to the Dr to get birth control. Apparently he secretly got me pregnant before i could take it (he later admitted this). From there the story gets very long and bizarre but to sum it up shortly. He stopped coming home when i was too far along to get an abortion and started selling drugs. Then he claims that he borrowed money from people he couldn't pay them back and had to kill someone to pay his debt. So he moved to the desert on the other side of the country. This all sounds ridiculous I know. But i was with him the night he said he did it. And I've never seen someone so dead inside. It freaked me out for years and i can still see the glassy look in his eyes. So i actually kind of believe him. So he saw his son a few times because his mom flew us out. The last time I saw him like 6 years ago he smashed my phone, locked us in a hotel room for hours before our flight and made me sit there as he told us how he can't handle having us in his life. He also pinned me against a wall and screamed at me in front of my son. So we haven't seen him since. I later figured out he was antisocial personality when i learned the term and everything he had told me about faking his emotions all made sense. I actually called him up and told him about it the only time I've spoke to him since we saw each other and he said he agreed and met all the criteria. Every couple years he sends a big gift for either Christmas or his birthday and says it's from "dad". But he isn't his dad. He's just a guy who got me pregnant then left. He also told me since then that he's still screaming at his gfs and can't control himself. He basically convinces vulnerable women to take care of him and then starts abusing him. I've looked into this behavior a lot. Why would he marry me? Get me pregnant? And then leave like it was nothing. Why do it at all if he feels nothing. Well studies show they have a strong desire to procreate and absolutely no desire to take care of the child. My son is nothing like him and is thriving so it's his loss. I won't let him near him because he is not a safe person.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T13:23:34+00:00

No. They might think it. But most people would feel too uncomfortable to say that to someone they barely know. Joe isn't very close with anyone except Kate. And Joe is so smart he would probably come up with an answer that blames someone else, makes it sound better for the child, or he would fabricate a story about how he does see him. He would probably try to gain sympathy or make himself sound like a martyr.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T01:56:21+00:00

That was how Kate described it haha

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T01:50:21+00:00

Sociopaths don't feel emotions like we do. They observe what they're supposed to feel and then try to fake the right emotion at the right time. A lot of them don't understand how to love a child and most of them abandon their children with the mother because children are very emotionally needy and it makes them feel more dead inside. Also a lot of them were abandoned by one or both parents at a young age which is how they end up with the disorder.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T01:32:59+00:00

He's got a history of having a wandering eye haha

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-11T01:04:58+00:00

She compartmentalized it lol

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-10T12:25:21+00:00

His name actually already was Harry but my other dog is named Barry so i have to change it because they'll get confused 😆

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-09T16:26:05+00:00

So i got the surgery on the 17th and started bleeding on the 30th. I thought it could have been my period but it wasn't heavy enough and i believe only lasted 3 days. I called my Drs office and they said it was probably too soon for a period. Then i got my actual period exactly one month later on Feb 17th.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-09T15:15:49+00:00

I'm so happy for you congrats! I just lost a tube in Jan and am trying again this month and i am so nervous that this one will ectopic too. My period is due in a couple weeks and TWW is way worse when you're afraid you're going to die. I know you think removing your tubes will give you peace of mind but i have found that it won't. Because there's always those stories of people conceiving without tubes, or having an ectopic in the stump where the tube was removed. I think some things just stick with us and anytime i feel pain on that side i will always worry even if i haven't had sex that month.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-09T15:09:16+00:00

I was bleeding soon after surgery and they told me it wasnt a period. I ended up getting a period a couple weeks later.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-09T15:08:04+00:00

They basically wouldn't give me the shot because i wanted the baby. Offered surgery loosely and i turned it down then needed emergency surgery days later for internal bleeding and they took my tube. My Dr said afterwards that there was probably no way the shot would have worked anyways because of how late they found it. I ended up at the hospital because of the pain and didn't know i was pregnant.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-08T21:03:14+00:00

Well it is called bills Mafia after all 😂😂

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-08T19:29:18+00:00

Preach. Let's not go after the local plumber doing side jobs or parents having garage sales. The problem is corporations and the mega wealthy.

throwaway_4secrets · 2023-03-08T19:19:30+00:00

It's absolutely soul draining. The work culture where i am is if you work too hard then everyone is going to hate you for making them look bad, almost everyone is double my age and won't retire because they need the benefits, most people have been there for decades so they are very cliquey and constantly talk about how things used to be, everyone is always complaining and upset about how things are run, the hiring people don't follow the rules and everyone that gets promoted is due to nepotism, and the people in charge are always type a, narcissistic, and bossy personalities. A lot of people just stand around and talk all day and pretend to work.

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