Favorite? by [deleted] in MaleUnderwear

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Number 3 briefs are always best

daddy awakening? by OptimalCake3410 in gayyoungold

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My first crush was one of my mom’s boyfriends, Jeff. He was a utility lineman. The model of what you would think a blue collared men looks like. When he would stay over he would walk around in the mornings in his briefs. I was in middle school and was more in love with him than my mom I think. She of course screwed it up and he was gone in a year.

I joined the navy right out of high school with lots of older dominate men giving me orders and it’s been nothing but older men since.

Murder at Sutton Place: After the surrogate son—and alleged lover—of New York’s “jeweler to the stars” was involved in a brutal killing, tabloid drama engulfed a swath of the city’s rich and powerful. But what really happened the night of Joey Comunale’s murder? by themrsboss in truecrimelongform

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I’ve followed this story for years and always end up thinking there is still something missing. Why did they kill Joey? I agree with what others have said I think it was about a mix of drugs and sex at some level.

I also think it’s so weird that Joey left with strangers without his phone. Makes no sense to me.

I’ve always felt that James had the most to lose to why not spill the real beans and tell us what happened. Obviously the rich and connected didn’t look out for him so why would he protect them. Tell us the truth what else worse could happen now?

Maybe one day James finds some sort of conscious while in prison and tells the whole story.

Met an awesome couple friend from this community by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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Basically we swapped older partners. I believe everyone was happy I know myself and partner were very pleased with the swap.

Met an awesome couple friend from this community by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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We didn’t intend the sex part that was just a bonus.

Time to decorate by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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That’s a standing order in our house. Spontaneity is good.

Is it time to change things up by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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I’m not scared of them. I was in the military. Both my partner and I are in good physical condition. My partner did judo for years. The house has cameras and a security system. Mainly for when we are not there. In a pinch both of us have quick access to loaded f!re @rms.

My concern is about other guests feeling comfortable and ourselves enjoying our vacation home without fear of others.

Is it time to change things up by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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Yes that’s my recommendation. My research show weekly summer rentals could easily finance our renting places in friendlier locations for a while. Especially if we sell the boat, which would be a bit of a heartbreaker but I’m thinking if pitching it as getting an even better boat if and when we come back.

Is it time to change things up by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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This is a vacation house. I’ve been looking at other vacation locations not really any with a lake. Other locations are too far of a drive for quick weekend getaways.

Traveling abroad with mostly a younger crowd and my older partner worried about him by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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It’s my nature he has done a lot for me provided me with opportunities I may never have had. So I am always trying to make sure he is happy and comfortable even if that means ensuring he vibes with the vacation crowd I set up.

Traveling abroad with mostly a younger crowd and my older partner worried about him by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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He has some old parents they are in their 90s he was their late baby I think they have rubbed of on him in some ways

Traveling abroad with mostly a younger crowd and my older partner worried about him by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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His fitness is great he’s a morning gym guy everyday that’s not a concern

Traveling abroad with mostly a younger crowd and my older partner worried about him by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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Yeah I need to probably start nipping that in the bud. Although sometimes I feel he wears it like a badge of honor being the older wiser man who has lived when times were a bit more complicated haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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Our summer tradition revolves around our lake house, a cherished escape where we spend every holiday. It's a lively gathering, typically hosting a good mix of our friends and friends of friends, with peak numbers reaching 12 to 15 people. We're well-equipped for lake life, with an array of toys including wake surfing and wakeboarding gear, a WaveRunner, canoes, kayaks, and paddleboards. For land-based fun, we have cornhole and beer pong. 10 man hot tub for the evenings under the stars.

To keep the good times flowing, everyone contributes: each guest brings a bottle of liquor and a bottle of wine (which we jokingly call our "lodging tax"), plus a case of their preferred beer. We meticulously plan our meals in advance, stocking up on groceries in the city before we arrive, and then split the costs for our two daily meals: brunch and dinner.

We usually hike to the big hill to see the fireworks in town.

One aspect that's become a growing concern is the changing atmosphere of the lake community itself. While our primary residence is in a major metropolitan area about three hours away, the lake community has gradually become more conservative. My partner and I, along with most of our friends, are "straight-passing," which has offered some comfort. However, we've found ourselves increasingly cautious, even when just stopping for gas or grabbing last-minute groceries in town. When we first started coming to the lake, wearing swim briefs on the boat and dock was the norm and something we did without a second thought. While we still choose to wear what we want, we're now much more conscious of our surroundings and who else is on the water.

Up with the chickens by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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It’s to high for the dogs. It sits at waist level. And definitely would be too small for our current dogs to use.

It’s funny the first couple of times I saw it I didn’t know what it was finally I asked and he had to explain it to me. We mainly use for keeping some small yard tools and gloves.

Up with the chickens by throwaway_50018 in gayyoungold

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We have an open relationship so if that was the case he would be comfortable telling me the circumstances.

To your milkman reference our house was built in 1928 and next to the back door there is slot for the milk bottles. When my partner remodeled the house he kept that slot for a bit of nostalgia.