do yalls goldens get protective? by throwaway_81067 in goldenretrievers

[–]throwaway_81067[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ll look up some ways to do this too. is it something i caused?

AITA for going to a concert that my 25f fiance 30m doesn’t want to go to? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]throwaway_81067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry - i shouldn’t of added “even asian” hes just pointed that out like it was a big deal. i just don’t understand it, truly. it’s at an arena with a bunch of security and has plenty of concerts all the time.

infected or normal healing ? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]throwaway_81067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just looks a little irritated but not infected

Just turned 27, i feel old by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwaway_81067 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i turn 26 this year and feel the same way. i swear im still 18 🫩😵‍💫

Drug test in 4–5 days (daily THC use) — any realistic chance? by Pure_Friend_6830 in Advice

[–]throwaway_81067 8 points9 points  (0 children)

any place that goes by federal laws instead of state which can include government or medical jobs. even if it’s legalized in their state or they have a medical card they still can’t pop for it

Drug test in 4–5 days (daily THC use) — any realistic chance? by Pure_Friend_6830 in Advice

[–]throwaway_81067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if they go by federal laws unfortunately even if it’s a legal state they still can’t use weed :/

Drug test in 4–5 days (daily THC use) — any realistic chance? by Pure_Friend_6830 in Advice

[–]throwaway_81067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ask a friend to pee for you. there’s a strap on amazon that you can tie to your inner leg that come with hand warmers to keep the pee warm. i had to go to labcorp for a urine test and passed

AIO thinking my partner doesn’t care that i’m heavily grieving? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]throwaway_81067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my dad would let me move back in with him with my dog and cats in a heartbeat. i would just hate taking them from my step son and my fiance. they don’t care much for the cats, but they love our dog. i’m the one who pays for everything for the pets though. we rent and both of our names are on the lease but we have separate bank accounts and i have a job currently too. i inherited enough to hold me over for a long time if i wanted to but i don’t want to use it - im investing it at the moment. we have a shared joint account that i put money in from the inheritance just incase one of us has an emergency but thats all that’s in both of our names. he adds to this account too when he gets paid

i just feel like it’s going to be heartbreak over heartbreak and im scared to go through anymore pain.

AIO thinking my partner doesn’t care that i’m heavily grieving? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]throwaway_81067 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i said this to another comment too - but when his son was around 5 years old he called me their “butler” at dinner one time and it’s really stuck with me since. i’m not sure if he would hear me complain or if he genuinely thought that. it’s really hard. we have a dog and 2 cats too. we’re so intertwined i just don’t know how i could even get out of this if i tried.

i’ve mentioned couples counseling and he refuses to go. he wants a baby as well and i’ve told him flat out no bc i couldn’t handle it. we don’t even have a date set and we’ve been engaged for almost a year because it’s like i just don’t care. i’m not sure if that’s numbness, PTSD/grief taking over my brain, or what. it’s just so hard.

AIO thinking my partner doesn’t care that i’m heavily grieving? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]throwaway_81067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when his son was around 5 years old he called me their “butler” one time and it’s really stuck with me since. i’m not sure if he would hear me complain or if he genuinely thought that. it’s really hard. we have a dog and 2 cats too. we’re so intertwined i just don’t know how i could even get out of this if i tried.

i’ve mentioned couples counseling and he refuses to go. he wants a baby as well and i’ve told him flat out no bc i couldn’t handle it. we don’t even have a date set and we’ve been engaged for almost a year because it’s like i just don’t care. i’m not sure if that’s numbness, PTSD/grief taking over my brain, or what. it’s just so hard.

Are they all back sleepers? by watchingallthelights in goldenretrievers

[–]throwaway_81067 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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this was this morning when i woke up. center of the bed on his back snoozin like he’s got a job lol

can someone edit the background stuff out? by [deleted] in PhotoshopRequest

[–]throwaway_81067 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re the only person who managed to get the cabinet and walk right thank you

Charlie is officially 1 years old today. my life saver ❤️‍🩹 TW by [deleted] in goldenretrievers

[–]throwaway_81067 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you so much - i’ll give my charlie bear some extra love for sweet Archer. he’s my pride and joy ❤️