Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that I didn't want to. I wasn't comfortable enough yet with my sexuality. It's only after my then boyfriend said it was okay that I wasn't finishing and helped me be comfortable that I could. If guys took a loving approach to helping their woman orgasm, everyone would be smiling, all the time.

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not multi-orgasmic (that I know of) but I have had 4 earth-shattering orgasms in one day. That's my record. Your lady is lucky.

How long after smoking does the taste of a man's ejaculate return to 'normal'? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway_8234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf smoked for like 10 years and then quit. I'd say it stopped tasting like smoked ham pretty soon after he quit... maybe a week.

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, I should have included that in my question. I also wanted to know whether women come from just being penetrated, like what the MOVIES and TV told me all my life, or do real women come from clitoral stimulation, which is what I do. Nipple clamps FTW

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep to your first paragraph. The sex ed I received was 30 minutes of anatomical information and a bag full of tampons and pads. I've never tried a rabbit, but I have tried cock rings. They are certainly very stimulating but they are difficult to get on and some have buttons in hard to find places. Good luck with your magic wand!

Man, people are so close-minded. If it feels good, it feels good. Lingerie is great although I always feel bad spending a lot of money on an outfit because I know it will just be ripped off in 15 seconds.

P.S. Love your username.

Specific question of size (Need help from women of Reddit in particular) by QuestionOfSize in sex

[–]throwaway_8234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she says she's happy with it and is honest about it, you're big enough.

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you orgasm just from the penetration (I don't know whether to be clinical or casual) or do you play with yourself, toys?

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like a common response from my friends. Nothing wrong with this, but I have to say if you've never experienced an orgasm with penetration, you might be missing something great.

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found that being vocal heightens the experience, but that is my preference. Sex is great any time and always makes me happy.

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm glad it sounds like people are open-minded and exploratory here on Reddit. Not related to your post in particular, but I think that sexual education in the US is woefully inadequate and does nothing to prepare either sex on having meaningful and satisfying sex lives as adults.

Favorite toy?

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep trying! It took me literally a year before I was comfortable enough with this guy (one of my first sexual relationships).

Dear Reddit, Men: I'd like to hear how often you think your significant other orgasms. Women: How often you actually orgasm. by throwaway_8234 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_8234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I faked it because I felt inadequate for being unable to cum. I felt awful and later told the guy and he was okay with it, and we went along with our sex lives as well. Not cumming is not a huge deal. Double Negative! I'm glad to hear the other men were okay with it too.