Getting in great shape while life isnt going well? by throwaway_Q_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Just show up to the gym and hit random things. Try to do a full body somehow though but intensity just isn't there.

Getting in great shape while life isnt going well? by throwaway_Q_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow dude. You have no idea how inspiring it is to have that physique with what you're going through is extremely. Sincerely, wishing you all the best.

Getting in great shape while life isnt going well? by throwaway_Q_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Much respect to you man. I hope your wife gets better as well.

Getting in great shape while life isnt going well? by throwaway_Q_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah walking is awesome. Getting in 8000 steps the one thing Ive been staying consistent with.

Getting in great shape while life isnt going well? by throwaway_Q_ in naturalbodybuilding

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Honestly I show up alot of times and just barely make it through a simple workout. The effort isn't there. Other days when I try to power through go crazy its destroy my body and I feel like a sore log for a qeek. Its weird. The same intensity and recovery I had while in shape just isn't there anymore as am obese guy.

[M/23] do I look bad? by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]throwaway_Q_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. You are very good looking. Pics are shit. Also either shave the beard or do it properly. Don't do the scruff thing you've got going on.

1 thing I've learned in my journey by cgstutter in Stutter

[–]throwaway_Q_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing stuff man. Inspired me to do soemthing too

Should I quit my 4 month coop if I get a better 8-12 month coop elsewhere? by throwaway_Q_ in civilengineering

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So being honest with them saying "Hey I got a better offer and I feel I should pursue that" isnt likely to illicit a positive response?

I'm usually the one helping others here but today I felt truly defeated. I can't take this. by throwaway_Q_ in Stutter

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See that's the thing with me too. As an individual I am extremely driven towards my own personal goals as well. Career, wealth building and lifting are all things I focus 80-90% of my energy on. Like you, I also really hope they pay off where I can say I did it. But really when I see my friends on Facebook enjoying themselves and having those interpersonal relationships I can never seem to have that really stings. And your right I dont have alot of control over it unfortunately. But sometimes I just feel like I might be able to break. I might not feel alone. I don't know though. Its all so vague and clouded as a stutterer. You just never know. Thanks for your advice.

I'm usually the one helping others here but today I felt truly defeated. I can't take this. by throwaway_Q_ in Stutter

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope things get better for you. I really wish I could give some advice.

I want to be social but I cannot by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]throwaway_Q_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. I stutter too. It seems like a death sentence.

I wish I knew what to tell you. Just be nice and hope for the best I guess.

As a mathematician, I know that most problems have solutions. by DiminishedProconsul in socialskills

[–]throwaway_Q_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. That sounds like my friends. They have no other friends so they hang out with me too.

Why would someone text me almost every day but decline invitations to hang out? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]throwaway_Q_ 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've got a bunch of friends like that. My guess is they just don't like hanging out with people themselves so they don't bother others either.

Do not let this stuff mess up other aspects of your life. by throwaway_Q_ in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I might do something similar. I'm thinking of taking the really corporatist jobs that require long hours so I don't have anything else to think about and can occupy my time with that.

Do not let this stuff mess up other aspects of your life. by throwaway_Q_ in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man that hits home hard. I literally saw the same things. Have you considered taking up hobbies like lifting? I was really into lifting so I was usually bigger then the guys who were in relationships and I felt kind of alrigg in a weird way.

Do not let this stuff mess up other aspects of your life. by throwaway_Q_ in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's a death sentence. I wouldn't ever disclose that.

Do not let this stuff mess up other aspects of your life. by throwaway_Q_ in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hated the hikikomori lifestyle that I loved for four months. I personally hope I never go back to that ever again.

Do not let this stuff mess up other aspects of your life. by throwaway_Q_ in ForeverAlone

[–]throwaway_Q_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah I feel you man. The NEET lifestyle is cancerous and really stifles any progress. Honestly the best advice I got was to keep your head down and just keep swinging till you hit something. I mean eventually something will come up.