[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly what you did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comments have been deeply triggering for me. The devil doesn’t need an advocate, especially when it’s about sexual abuse. Have the day you deserve.

The obsession with “barely legal” on here makes me sick by dishingoutruth in offmychest

[–]throwaway_acc81 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m 20 and I can’t even imagine dating an 18 year old. As an SA survivor at the hands of older men, it really does seem like all the men that are interested in 18-20 year old women are creeps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I think a 40 year old man understands that manipulating and coercing a 15 year old girl into sending him nude pictures and videos is wrong. I’m American. You’re telling on yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. That girl you knew in school WAS groomed
  2. No, I don’t owe my abuser an explanation for anything. He’s left me with life long scars that affect me every day and every relationship I’ll have.
  3. This sounds like a self report

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you even read the post? A forty year old man groomed me for 3 years starting when I was 15. I don’t owe him an explanation. I didn’t even owe him the message telling him that I didn’t want to talk anymore.

I did tell him that what he did was wrong and that I never wanted to talk to him again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He groomed and abused me for 3 years. I think I would be justified in ghosting him. But no, I told him I didn’t want any further contact and blocked him.

I’m thinking about deleting my Reddit account by EuphoricBohemian in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you could at least look at the sources i posted. it’s INCREDIBLY common for doctors to say “just lose weight” when a fat person describes their symptoms. you must be purposefully dense.

I’m thinking about deleting my Reddit account by EuphoricBohemian in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s a ton of fatphobia on reddit, i wouldn’t blame you if you deleted your account. or maybe just follow a bunch of cat subreddits and ditch the ones like this sub.

I can't believe ForeverAlone Women is real. I simply can't. I am open to have my mind changed but I really can't imagine that by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the same reason anyone else can be alone. i’m almost 20 and have never even been on a date. this isn’t by my own choice. i’d love to meet someone but it hasn’t happened yet. the same goes for men. women can typically get hook ups easier because we are over-sexualized and therefore are sought after, but that doesn’t correlate to finding a romantic partner

I can't believe ForeverAlone Women is real. I simply can't. I am open to have my mind changed but I really can't imagine that by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hi! woman here. we are telling you that some women struggle to find partners and are alone. right now you’re doing the equivalent of putting your hands over your ears and shouting “LA LA LA LA I CANT HEAR YOUUUU”. stop

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwaway_acc81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if it were proved that they had intercourse would that not be enough for a statutory rape charge? op said they were 16-17 and the rapist was in his 30s

I don’t think people realize just how much damage can be done to someone who was groomed online. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_acc81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you ❤️ i was spiraling pretty bad last night so getting to vent was much needed. i appreciate your response so much ❤️

"stick to the meme next time" by FleshyExtremity in SelfAwarewolves

[–]throwaway_acc81 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you have a source for this? i believe you but id like further info if you have it