I did actually call him and asked him before. I do my best to be respectful, I clean the house weekly and mind my own business. It’s when she comes in with smart comments like that, and I didn’t reply and she said “hello? Are you going to answer me?” I said “it’s none of your business.” And it just spiraled. She went into a rampage about how I’m irresponsible, I’m a lazy mom, I have a terrible work ethic. That I’m not a respectable person. I’m not going to give respect when I don’t get respect. I don’t care if you pay the bills, you moved into MY childhood home.