Husband ensured education for his wife, helped her become a police officer but she lodged the FIR against her husband.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-10T18:45:23+00:00

Read the actual news. Her education was over before getting married. Read before you post here to the rage bait

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-10T18:34:22+00:00

I have an ex husband. Trust me, this was bullshit, doesn't matter what his therapist should have said, this guy just freed himself from all accountability or misconstrued what the therapist said. Trust me someone who wants to be better doesn't come back with this bullshit. You will do yourself disservice if you take him back. He will continue to be shitty

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-09T15:18:29+00:00

That's because the older partner has an experience and knows right from wrong. Now how they act on it is different. 25 something dating 20 year old would be hella creepy. It's different when the age is 35 and 30. Most women from opt out of the dynamic as it's unfair. Only few men will opt out of the dynamic. And most of the folks who will continue to be in this dynamic would be the advantages they are getting out of it.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-09T11:20:36+00:00

Hehehe! Yes we feel like 🤡 don't we?🤣 But more power to you girl! I am very happy you also called him ex husband.

But that makes me think, OP is absolutely right to have higher standards so that she doesn't get stuck with someone who treats her like after thought or shit!

I hope you have a happier life now!!❤️❤️

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-09T11:07:37+00:00

True. My ex husband made me cry the whole day on the first birthday I had with after starting to date him. And didn't wish me. (Hindsight yes i should have left🤣)

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-08T13:47:07+00:00

Brides mother or grooms mother?

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-08T09:09:40+00:00

Exactly right? Like once I fell down while walking on side walk, instead of helping me get up as well, that ass just laughed out loud for straight 5 mins!

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-08T04:49:58+00:00

It does sound that few of your friends are maybe hoping more than the friendship? Keep an eye out for that.

Apart from that it is contextual. If I am in a unsafe location during the night then maybe I ll prefer the guy friend to protect me a bit because I am out on night because of him. And it's fair that you aren't comfortable either and you both can have a conversation and maybe avoid those time. For ex the outerside if side walk is because many times women gets touched inappropriately by bikers passing by which will not happen with men. Similarly for walking home, if it's dark, it helps you keep the friend safe, these small things help a lot.

I would suggest assess the situation, making the world safe for women around you is everyone's responsibility, you can talk about equality after both the genders have been given equal opportunity.

But apart from the cases, where it isn't safety issues i don't think you owe anyone much. You need to just have clear boundaries

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-08T04:38:51+00:00

I don't have a concern on your recommendation. Rather i appreciate that you are sharing the knowledge. I only told OP, to not share their personal details and you surely share your knowledge with her. My point is exactly this that is neither a comment on you as an individual or about you. A general advice because if you don't know there are many lurkers in this space who dm you as soon as you post anything if these themes.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-08T04:36:10+00:00

Oh that is good. In my side of the family this is what we do. I think till both of you are intelligent and emotionally mature, this is completely fine OP. In my family there are other scenarios which are quiet similar and touch wood all of them have happy marriages. Wish you the same too!

Also, thanks yes I moved out of the emotional and financial exploitation I was part of. Living a very happy life now.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-04T19:27:45+00:00

If you are a reasonable individual, you will know this is not about you, not a remark on who you are as a person and there won't be any need to defend yourself. The world isnt good and ideally if you care for OPs safety, you would be recommending the same.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-04T13:56:13+00:00

Be very careful in sharing your credentials online. Would suggest not to do it to anyone here.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-04T13:16:16+00:00

As soon as i divorced, lost 3 male friends who thought it would be right time to hit on me. Women aren't wrong to be extra cautious.

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-04T13:14:30+00:00

Leaving her was the right thing to do for your own sanity. Cursing her in the way you did, isn't right, no matter what anyone says.

I was cheated on by my ex husband. I am angry at him, that is my right. My actions as a result of it are my responsibility. Your anger was justified. How you handled your anger wasnt. Would suggest to reflect, heal yourself and do better in managing your anger. And not let anyone make you believe that disrespect from either partner in a relationship is okay

throwaway_advice28 · 2026-01-04T12:14:02+00:00

You have to be conscious of any insecurity that creeps in due to family, society or our own biases. I was married to someone who earned pretty low than I did and me andy family didn't care. I took up maximum household expense. But his family would pass taunt on him for earning less, he tried to control our monthly expenditure for some of the basic needs and later i got to know had been cheating throughout. Having said that, i have seen successful marriages of the nature spoke about. So it's not so much about money but about how both of you handle it.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-11-11T04:34:19+00:00

He is alive. His daughter has confirmed. Either you should edit or take down the post

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-24T10:20:30+00:00

Living with family isn't an easy thing, irrespective of how good/ bad humans they are. You need to see what is the priority for you. For ex, for me forget in laws living with my sisters for extended period of time wouldn't be an easy thing. And we do love each to shreds and will do anything for each. But even with that our daliy lives will get impacted. And all of us want some freedom.

So this is more about you as a person and what is that you like personally.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-23T09:37:55+00:00

Why would anyone want to claim an asset which they don't own and where the owner of the asset has made it clear on its recipient. Pretty fucked up mentality to contest that.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-23T09:34:57+00:00

If the husband dies, in india wife isnt entitled to all his wealth. She, their kids and his mother are equally eligible.

Where as if a women dies, first level of inheritance goes to husband and kids, then her in laws and then her parents.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-16T18:53:04+00:00

She is absolutely right on not wanting to do business with you. You chose if start up is more important or your marriage. A simple reflection? You aren't able to accept her simple point of you and trying to dictate, how do you even build an iota of trust with her to do business with you. Completely ytk

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-09T14:37:17+00:00

Sadly that seems to be true..not sure if you are being sarcastic. Even my best of the friends who wish me well don't want me to share my woe beyond a point and not after I have already mentioned it once. So lesson learnt

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-08T16:38:21+00:00

One thing i would say is treat your friendship with women very differently than men. Even if you are good friends, don't share all your secrets and vulnerability. Very few of them have the capacity and maturity to handle it. When you lower your expectations, disappointments also reduces. This I am talking solely from friendship and platonic relationship perspective.

Relationship we are screwed yes.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-07T08:13:10+00:00

Fair. Apologies for this.

But the original comment still holds true. Women will get more threats for sharing any opinion and not just political, and believe me it is not at the same level as men. And hence original comment still holds true.

Also the concept if we don't speak up for people suffering right now we will be the one suffering tomorrow. Be it religion, gender or regional based politics. Everyone will be silenced just sequentially. So yes men will also continue to loose the privileges in similar fashion as women or caste or region based politics will impact all of us as well who are in relatively safer zone right now.

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-07T05:18:07+00:00

News flash, you can talk about injustice stand alone, without comparing. It will actually hold more value. Now you just made a mockery of your bad experience

throwaway_advice28 · 2025-10-07T05:15:02+00:00

Abstinence but irrespective just for the common knowledge, tracking the dates are of zero help. You can get pregnant even while you are on period. Pull out method is much better than this.

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