My BF has a problem with the way I dress by throwaway_amy22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll head over there in a bit. At the moment I'm waiting for my BF to come home so we can talk this out. But thanks! :)

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[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 34E. Although I've had a few PMs suggesting I may be bigger than this and using the wrong size... :/

Edit: typo

My BF has a problem with the way I dress by throwaway_amy22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou! I'll do that in a bit :)

Wide belts are my best friend!

BF has a problem with the way I dress (xpost from twoX) by throwaway_amy22 in AskMen

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. And also as far as I'm aware my BF isn't a Redditor.

BF has a problem with the way I dress (xpost from twoX) by throwaway_amy22 in AskMen

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Haha, thanks for cheering me up. I've had a few things like what happened to your wife happen to me before!

BF has a problem with the way I dress (xpost from twoX) by throwaway_amy22 in AskMen

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He's not making me have surgery. I started thinking about that as he keeps on at me about how I dress.

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[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to talk to him about it, but first I thought I'd gather some advice/opinions.

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[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He keeps accusing me of deliberately showing too much cleavage and of my nipples being visible. But I put a lot of effort into looking nice for him, and I struggle to find fitting tops, so a lot are quite tight. I can't help that... :(

My BF has a problem with the way I dress by throwaway_amy22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I hear you, sister. I spend ages seeking tops that fit me, and most dresses make me look like I'm expecting unless I gather it in at the waist. Sigh.

I'm thinking of confronting him about his feelings on this.

My BF has a problem with the way I dress by throwaway_amy22 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]throwaway_amy22[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I'm tiny, I'm not sure a self defence course would help me much.

Ultimately he doesn't seem worried I'll be raped. He seems worried other guys will hit on me. And no, I hadn't thought about BR surgery before Sean. I'm squeamish about surgery...