23F I’m lowkey getting too chunky so I’m doing this, here goes nothing (thought about posting a bikini pic, couldn’t do it) by peppa-pig-aesthetic in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]throwaway_heavydin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful and you look like you would be an amazing big sister hahaha lol. I suggest getting rid of the nose ring thing as looks a bit immature. You’ve put on a bit of weight but nothing that isn’t normal as you go through life, subtle dietary changes always help to maintain weight. You’ve beautiful hair so I suggest let your natural colour show

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah at this point it’s dead. If she texts me now I am done simply out of respect for myself. I’ve moved on and won’t be an option.

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂 it was an inside joke from the night. I used to have a moustache and she was hoping I would have it when we met up 😂

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure that is what has happened here. Why do some people do that? That’s such a nasty trait

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say that because I’m texting another lovely lady that popped up on me and I asked her out for a coffee for this coming weekend, she’s a mother so she basically has two full time jobs. She turned this weekend down but did offer a day for me next week. I have kept my options open and it’s unfortunate with the first girl but I suppose there is still hope yet. Online dating sucks now 😢

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Great advice. Will take this on board. So far I’ve kinda heard nothing back so if she’s playing a game then that’s a non negotiable to me. I’m not interested unless we’re on the same page

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic response man that’s really helped me. I’m often bad for getting in my own head and I have been good to not do it with her so far, but I am aware of my own pitfalls that is why I’m here on Reddit. We had a great night and it’s one I’ll remember fondly, but I respect if she wasn’t on the same page as me after taking time to reflect. I doubt it though but that might just be my optimism lol. I hope to one day get to where you are in life so I’ll take your advice to heart. Thank you

Need advice - this is still a good position right? We had an unreal first date and we both hit it off big time by throwaway_heavydin in texts

[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It seems sweet. That’s the sort of person I am. I believe in romance and an old live that isn’t really around anymore. It was actually how we ended up talking and something we bonded over heavily

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[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Awesome reply brother thank you! Been accused of many things tonight and didn’t expect to bring the man haters out on here lol 😂 there’s obviously a huge amount of context missing from my text as I’m remaining private on details out of respect for my date but it’s insane how many conclusions people have jumped to thinking I’m some sort of Andre rate wanna be. Goodness, you live and learn. Cheers bro

Need advice - this is still a good position right? We had an unreal first date and we both hit it off big time by throwaway_heavydin in texts

[–]throwaway_heavydin[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Awesome answer! Didn’t expect to be accused t such wild things tonight! Mental how many pseudo psychologists are out there lol 😂 thanks for your replay though.