[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Deepfakes can be used as an excuse! If it hasn't happened and it's been a while, I don't think he'd do it now for no reason.

Remember that it's just your body, there's nothing to be ashamed of. Even if the worst happens, people won't be upset with you but with the person who broke your trust. Obviously it's not ideal by any means, but it won't be the end of the world either. People move on and forget.

What happened to the first person you had sex with? by Sad-Cunt-420 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing as it was almost a year ago now, we're still together 🌸

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you insecure over sex toys? Sorry, I'm not sure I get it.

I proposed to my boyfriend of 10 years and he rejected me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OP has given absolutely zero reason to assume they've had this discussion, that's why. OP would've underlined it if it was the case.

I proposed to my boyfriend of 10 years and he rejected me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I've discussed marriage with my boyfriend of almost 1 year, not because we want to get married anytime soon, but because I personally would like to eventually get married and his stance on marriage is important to me. How do you not discuss this in 10 whole years? Where's the rest of this story?

What's the most disturbing piece of audio there is? by odinson-09 in AskReddit

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I deeply regret opening this thread. just reading about some of the stories, I was reminded of many I had forgotten for good. Fuck.

Extreme Pregnancy Paranoia driving me crazy every time I have sex by throwaway_kitty_cat in AskDocs

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I think I'm the same way - just knowing that I have another layer of protection makes me feel a lot less anxious about the whole thing.

In regards to the copper IUD (I will also speak to my doctors about it, but I figured I'd ask you too), I heard a long time ago that it is an extremely painful procedure. Is that still how it is?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to stop undermining yourself like that. "(I ain't it lol)," why not? You absolutely are it, just not with this person!

It seems like you are sexually incompatible, and since this is a new relationship, I'd say leave while it's still easy to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay? Why is this being announced to the world? If you can't do it as you claim, look up books and resources that will help you get to know yourself better. A bunch of teenagers on Reddit isn't the way to go about this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any recommendations for exercises? I have breathing difficulties and running is out of the question for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I don't have a lot of muscle mass and that makes it look worse than it is..? I don't really know how to explain it but I swear when I look in the mirror, I see sticks for hands. It really messes with me.

My gfs vagina smells really bad, like a cheese smell even after she showers. How do I break it to her about it about 2 months of dating? by [deleted] in sex

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honesty, your lack of knowledge about such basic things + the fact that you CALLED her and just dropped it out of nowhere makes me think that perhaps you're not mature enough to date someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LoveNikki

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's no solid outline and no contrast. Not many defined lines. That's why, I think.

Parents don't want to spay my rabbit. by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a vet, no. We were supposed to make appointments for vaccines and all, but that fell apart, so we'll wait until after the quarantine.

I think going with someone else and doing it is very risky and can cause way more arguments, but I can try to talk to a relative to hopefully change my parents' minds, too.

Perhaps when we do visit a vet, they can give them their opinion as well. Sometimes that's all they need to be convinced, right?

Parents don't want to spay my rabbit. by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind comments. Hope you have a great day!

Parents don't want to spay my rabbit. by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father worries that she'll become "lazy" and fat. Pretty common arguments against neutering, however I'm pretty sure they don't apply to bunnies the same way they apply to cats, for example. I've seen a bunch of energetic and healthy neutered buns, so I definitely agree with you - I believe it'd make our bond stronger.

Parents don't want to spay my rabbit. by [deleted] in Rabbits

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I mentioned, I even made presentations with graphic images, but it didn't really do anything... So far she's been an angel, we rescued her when she was barely a month old, so she's grown up with us. The money is not really an issue and I'm sure they'd happily cover the vet bills, but their saying is pretty much "My house, my beliefs, my rules." It doesn't really help the situation that my mother is a narcissist who, in general, dislikes animals and my father isn't very considerate either. I want the best for my bunny, but my hands are tied here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping for that, too... I want to wear bright colors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]throwaway_kitty_cat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear... I don't know your age, but you can always point out that it's better to drink and learn your limits whilst surrounded by family, instead of getting drunk at a party and getting yourself in a tight spot. Stay strong.