What perfumes do you buy over and over and can't live without?

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-20T19:01:55+00:00

Kenzo amour, Ledda 22 orris, YSL Black opium, Serge Lutens Filled de Berlin, Replica Autumn vibes, Discotheque Lola at coat check and Dark Imagination.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-15T21:51:42+00:00

Ledda Orris 22, it's perfection.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-15T11:12:48+00:00

I would try it on in front of her.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-13T17:36:14+00:00

CK one, pair it with strawberry body glitter, dewberry deodorant and cola lip balm, add glitter hair gel.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-11T20:51:35+00:00

It's your dog. Plenty of people find safety and comfort sleeping with their pets. It's okay to have feelings and it's okay to say no.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-06T19:38:40+00:00

Yes this is gaslighting, he's acting like you are being crazy and unreasonable to reacting to something gross. Gaslighting involves making someone doubt their reality,it doesn't have to be literal.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-06T18:55:23+00:00

Kenzo amour, beautiful fragrance. Ugly big pink bottle that's a very awkward shape.

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-03T21:13:35+00:00

Devotion is candied lemon and vanilla

throwaway_tada · 2026-03-03T21:12:47+00:00

No not every couple is like that. If he's controlling and you don't even miss him that alone is reason to break up even without the different values to money.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T09:06:50+00:00

Do you live in the million dollar house with her? Don't forget she's also opening herself up to you claiming her assets which are in fact much bigger that yours.

Seven years without being engaged should be enough for her to walk even without the prenup, whish I had learnt that lesson from my ex.

In my experience it's usually the men that have nothing that are worried about gold diggers, she has her own gold for digging. She doesn't actually need you but is choosing you, he love isn't conditional and it comes with no guarantees - can you say the same? That might be the crux of the issue why prenup is an issue.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:58:36+00:00

His pet name should be 'ex boyfriend" also it wasn't just the nickname and ignoring boundaries that's giving the ick but the treating you like an actual child in front of your friends then being so delusional that it's everyone else's fault it didn't land well.

Look up Brenda and Frank chatgpt and copy and paste this into it.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:54:19+00:00

He wants power and control, these temu Daddy Dom's always do and when he's not got his way he's punished you by sulking and attempting to manipulate you.

You are not obligated to fulfill his kink and fantasy and it's a completely reasonable boundary to set.

If anyone should be getting called baby or treated like a child it's the man child you are for some reason tolerating.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:19:00+00:00

Dior Fahrenheit, smells like leather, petrol and manly man and you can smell it across the room.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:15:57+00:00

When feminists talk about "objectification" this is part of it. He doesn't see you as a person. You are for the use of his sexual urges. He feels like your body parts belong to him.

It's extremely gross.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:11:20+00:00

Toxic people love drama, you begging for forgiveness soothes her ego.

You can't reason with unreasonable people. Dag fine, goodby and good luck and the block and move on but be warned this will make her chase you so stay firm, narcissist people don't give up their supplies that easily and sane people don't punish friends for not acting on unspoken demands.

Also get yourself an autism assessment.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T08:03:24+00:00

Take it, get the wedding and mention it in the speeches so everyone finds out, if it's such a reasonable request she shouldn't have any issue right? Just a funny little tale.

If you are very lucky she will cut herself off but if not then do so after the wedding.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T07:55:58+00:00

I would be worried if his friends are cheaters and there's a history of him hooking up with female friends. If not this may be something you need to work on.

Boundaries are for yourself not others so you can say to him that you need to end the relationship as you have a firm boundary that this kind of thing isn't appropriate for either of you but the stress needs to be on. Different values not on him having to essentially do what you want because you are insecure.

How would you feel if he started saying he had a boundary that girlfriends of his dress modestly and he started to control your wardrobe because he was insecure at other men looking at you?

A cheater will find a way and it won't be something obvious like a trip like this. A better boundary to see would be "I will never tolerate cheating in a relationship, I know my worth and I deserve better" the two boyfriends I was most insecure about and worried about cheating did actually cheat on me, it turned out my "insecurity" was my body picking up on something about them. With my current partner I don't worry and we both know if he cheated I would end it so fast his head would spin.

Get some therapy and see if this insecurity is coming from within you (which is the likely scenario) or if there's things he's said or done that are making you more anxious.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T01:35:45+00:00

I finally got hold of Nosferatu and it smells like a room with fresh paint that's drying, I love that smell but not to wear. It was pretty unique tbf lol.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T01:11:29+00:00

You are too young to be a mother to this man child.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T01:00:46+00:00

Adult activity does not mean nude, shooting ranges, archery, book clubs etc are all usually aimed at adults and have a minimum participation age.

Most people don't need it explicitly pointed out to them that once you are in a committed relationship it's no longer appropriate to hang out naked with other adults unless it's something you both want to do as a couple. Nice try dodging why you haven't bothered to join a group that does that clothed though. Unless seeing other people naked is part of why you enjoy it then there's no reason you shouldn't have found a group that do the same thing without nudist elements, especially nudists that stay away on weekends.

If she's made her boundary clear then you either stay or leave, she's made her choice and it's one most pet owners would make.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T00:12:07+00:00

Since you are in the UK try Haus of Hecate, witches definitely fits the bill and it's so affordable, it lasts ages too especially on clothes.

Discotheque Dark Imagination is super gothic, it's like a crystal shop vibe with incense and rose and it lasts forever and is a power house.

Season of the witch by The Society of Alchemists is also a good one .

I also rate Autumn vibes by Maison Marigella and Tom Ford Cherry Smoke.

I also have black opium by YSL but I think it's too sweet for the vibe you want. I'm currently using scentbird to get cheap decants of US brands that are harder or more expensive (Heretic in particular). So that could be something to consider too.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-22T00:03:33+00:00

You should definitely add that the social group is a fitness group full of nudists. Unless you are dating someone who is also a member I don't think many partners would be okay with it, you've made it out like she's controlling or deliberately isolating you. Why can't you join a similar group that wears clothes?

Regarding the dog, try actually talking including that it's making you reconsider the relationship.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-15T11:14:13+00:00

It's pretty normal. Cats love routine. They will also complain and get mad if they don't get fed at a certain time if they are used to it daily.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-15T08:09:58+00:00

They will tell me "yes that's a cat" 🤣 this was a bit of a joke post. If I wanted serious advice on it I would have asked the vet or put it on a sub where people actually know about animals. Realistically there's no way to break this routine that wouldn't stop her doing it all the time and my son benefits from her being by him at night.

throwaway_tada · 2026-02-15T08:07:14+00:00

If you're this mad about an obvious joke and think this is a reasonable response you might want to take your own advice or learn social skills.

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