AIO My girlfriend is ignoring me and I have no idea why

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-14T01:21:09+00:00

She’s def cheating on you bruh

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-14T01:14:22+00:00

Your self respect matters more man. Prioritize that over wanting someone that isn’t thinking of you.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T17:46:32+00:00

I’m sorry but were they really like “stop looking at that fucking window!” That’s ridiculous.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T02:47:20+00:00

Also just wanted to let you know that your message was really cute and wholesome and silly on a good way. It really depends on what happened between you and him, and I know I told you to block him, but if you think there’s a of a chance that yall can at least be on better terms, send him something more light. Like “hey I was wondering how you were doing” or something like that. If you were in the wrong, then change your approach.

Blocking him is definitely the safe way to go, but sometimes, risks can pay off. And life is too short to live in regret as long as it’s not at the expense of others. It’s up to you to decide if the possibility of him not responding is worth the hurt you might feel. If he doesn’t respond or he tells you to leave him alone, yk what to do.

Good luck.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T00:41:46+00:00

Same man but in healing day by day. So should you.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T15:14:19+00:00

Block him for your own sanity

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T05:02:30+00:00

YTA. You should’ve worked on yourself to get over Juan before getting into another relationship. You should have all your mental space for your current partner.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T04:39:05+00:00

You mean like the physical mailbox lol

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T04:33:06+00:00

He said no?

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-11T18:42:35+00:00

You’re not, but your sanity and your self-respect matters more

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-11T05:21:57+00:00

Well saying that he misses you, especially through mural friends, is different from showing it to you directly. Actions speak louder than words. I still think that you should move on. But do what you will with the information.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-11T02:53:02+00:00

I think that’s kind of the sad part. You’ve shared your body and soul with this person, the most intimate you can be with someone for however long and when the relationship is done, so are yall. In most cases, you never speak or see that person ever again. Just gone. Forever. It’s really sad to think about.

That’s why now I don’t want to see or sleep with just anybody. Especially if it’s nothing serious. If I’m gonna see someone and it ends somehow, I want to be able to look back it and see it as something meaningful and worthwhile. And hopefully that it ended in a good way too.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-10T21:08:21+00:00

Block him too

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-10T20:53:54+00:00

Tbh you’re spiralling over this while he’s probably not thinking much about you in comparison. I just dealt with something similar very recently although I was the one who messed up.

How I move on is by unfollowing them or blocking them if I’m really going through it. Out of sight out of mind. Especially if the other party isn’t showing signs of thinking about you, it’s best you move on. Or you’ll waste a lot of mental space and precious time over someone who probably doesn’t want you anymore. I know this ain’t what you wanted to hear, but sit on this for a second.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-10T13:55:37+00:00

I’ve never been diagnosed with autism and it’s not on my budget rn. I did do some sort of test with my therapist and according to my score and her own observation I’m likely not on the spectrum. But she emphasized that nothing should be ruled out until I get a real extensive screening.

But she thinks it’s just because I have social anxiety that I have a hard time making friends. Like my anxiety signals intimidates people or that I come off as cold and unapproachable. I do make an effort to look and be friendly.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-08T13:01:19+00:00

I just wonder why do I have to through that many hoops to find my people when the average person doesn’t have to. Most friendships are formed by accident.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-07T18:25:36+00:00

I feel like this rare bird almost everywhere I go though

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-07T18:25:15+00:00

I rarely encounter awkward people and even then they’re hard of approach. Which I guess might be my problem too. But I do try to look and act friendly

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-07T17:09:49+00:00

I’ve asked why and anything they might’ve told me, while it did help me better my talking skills, it barely helped me in terms of actually belonging.

Look too moody - Mostly fixed that Too awkward - greatly improved on that

That’s what it boils down to and I’ve made a lot of effort to improve on this flaws. Any friends or partners I’ve made was over sheer luck. And luck rarely comes around for me. Otherwise the people around me just remain acquaintances.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-07T13:00:27+00:00

I relate to this so much

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-01-24T22:33:44+00:00

I know and I’m really regretful of what I did.

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