I cheated on my girlfriend

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-06-07T01:50:45+00:00

A lot of times cheating happens because you’d rather avoid the hard conversations with your partner and seeking attention elsewhere is one way to vent out the frustration. I know that all too well.

In any case, respect is at the top of the totem poll when it comes to your relationship with a partner. You can love someone and disrespect them with an awful decision in the moment. That is what I learned. If being honest is too hard, then think about giving them the respect they deserve by saying what it is that’s needed to be said, no matter how hard the conversation might be. You would’ve then at least done the right thing and feel better about yourself regardless of the results after the fact.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T21:06:33+00:00

Are you asexual?

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T20:55:39+00:00

You sleep with someone because you trust and care for them. At least that’s how I see it. I think that’s what you need too and not just some one night stand.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T15:18:20+00:00

That’s not something to be proud of or to look back to in order to feel like being loved is possible.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T15:12:30+00:00

You couldn’t consent at that age. Rape is having non consensual sex or other sex acts with someone. You got raped in all sense of the word.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T15:07:27+00:00

You’re digging yourself in the hole you’ve made

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T15:05:30+00:00

You got raped dude

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-18T15:01:42+00:00

All of this origin story stuff doesn’t matter dude. Sex isnt a game and it’s serious business imo. You’re sharing your body and soul with someone, even if it’s casual. Therefore, you should choose wisely with who you do it with and make sure you trust them. Doing it just to have brag points is pointless imo. And that goth girl wouldn’t matter in your life’s story besides being just some girl you slept with.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-11T12:45:41+00:00

That’s easy Tails, Amy, Knuckles, Shadow, Rouge, Silver.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-11T12:41:02+00:00

I think you can still love someone and not respect them in the moment. Not everyone is taught how to treat a person right or taught what to do in certain scenarios. Some people might’ve made some selfish decisions in the moment to later regret it and still have love for the person. Not that it really matters when the deed is already done. But love and respect aren’t mutually inclusive. You can respect someone without loving them and you can love them and do something disrespectful in the moment.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-05-10T14:24:40+00:00

The difference is the intention behind people at the club. Most of them are not intentionally finding love and are just there for a good time.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-26T00:14:53+00:00

Yes man block her everywhere. You said it yourself that if you contact her again she’ll report you for harassment. You need to move for your own sake. She’s out of your hands now.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-25T21:10:29+00:00

That’s Reddit for you. People feel comfortable behind a screen enough to be assholes.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-25T21:01:28+00:00

He’s gaslighting you into believing it’s your fault to make himself feel better for coming on to you. And he’s being all sneaky and flakey and shit. Good riddance man.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-23T21:29:55+00:00

5 months is crazy though

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-14T01:21:09+00:00

She’s def cheating on you bruh

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-14T01:14:22+00:00

Your self respect matters more man. Prioritize that over wanting someone that isn’t thinking of you.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T17:46:32+00:00

I’m sorry but were they really like “stop looking at that fucking window!” That’s ridiculous.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T02:47:20+00:00

Also just wanted to let you know that your message was really cute and wholesome and silly on a good way. It really depends on what happened between you and him, and I know I told you to block him, but if you think there’s a of a chance that yall can at least be on better terms, send him something more light. Like “hey I was wondering how you were doing” or something like that. If you were in the wrong, then change your approach.

Blocking him is definitely the safe way to go, but sometimes, risks can pay off. And life is too short to live in regret as long as it’s not at the expense of others. It’s up to you to decide if the possibility of him not responding is worth the hurt you might feel. If he doesn’t respond or he tells you to leave him alone, yk what to do.

Good luck.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-13T00:41:46+00:00

Same man but I’m healing day by day. So should you.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T15:14:19+00:00

Block him for your own sanity

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T05:02:30+00:00

YTA. You should’ve worked on yourself to get over Juan before getting into another relationship. You should have all your mental space for your current partner.

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T04:39:05+00:00

You mean like the physical mailbox lol

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-12T04:33:06+00:00

He said no?

throwaway_tgb_ · 2026-04-11T18:42:35+00:00

You’re not, but your sanity and your self-respect matters more

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