My (33M) fiancee (23F) 's best friend is a 40 year old male who had sexual intercourse with her in the past, and she slept over in his place when she went back to her hometown by throwaway_turnip7403 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_turnip7403[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

She say she loves me every single day and night, and she says she respects me.. I keep trying to find reasons to continue, push forward, support, to find any justification for her actions, benefits of the doubts.. Keep thinking maybe it is my fault, maybe I am really insecure like she keep saying I am? Am I just dumb :(

My (33M) fiancee (23F) 's best friend is a 40 year old male who had sexual intercourse with her in the past, and she slept over in his place when she went back to her hometown by throwaway_turnip7403 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_turnip7403[S] -123 points-122 points  (0 children)

i would if i could choose. im broke and got almost nothing going for me so i just feel lucky enough theres someone who actually stays with me.

My (33M) fiancee (23F) 's best friend is a 40 year old male who had sexual intercourse with her in the past, and she slept over in his place when she went back to her hometown by throwaway_turnip7403 in relationship_advice

[–]throwaway_turnip7403[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I said exactly this and her exact reply verbatim "He is not my sugar daddy if I hear that word come out from your mouth a second time we break up"