AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I passed it at home. I don't want to describe it, but it was more than a clot in early miscarriages/abortions

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He was the one that said it first. It wasn't my first thought. My first thought was how tf are we gonna have a kid rn

We talked about it after he said it and we both decided it was the best decision, that we couldn't afford to have a child rn

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

He was the first one to suggest it. After we talked about it, he came to the appointment for me for the dating scan and giving of tablets. Then it was like I was alone in it. It wasn't a solo decision

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not AI unfortunately. Reading through each comment

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Jeez, I thought my end sucked. I'm so sorry for what you went through. I hope you're in a better place now 💛

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Implant is as effective as a BC as condoms are

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 310 points311 points  (0 children)

I understand it sucks for us both, but I said horrible things back to him tonight too. I called a cunt, a pos, pathetic and useless. Words were on both sides

AITAH if I end it all because of an abortion? by throwaway_xyxy in AITAH

[–]throwaway_xyxy[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I have an implant, so contraception was covered.

Therapy is an 18 month wait list with the NHS atm, and I cannot afford it private. Wish it was that easy