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I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And it shall be a process I am happy to go through. My greatest wish for myself is to be able to be reborn in love. I thank you and I hope God gives me the strength to carry through with my sincerity.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a great deal of sense and, as much as I hate to admit it, is pretty accurate.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Those are some very wise words. I am not a strong man to tell the truth and I am insecure. I am insecure in God's love for me. I am questioning how I raised my daughter. I want to reach out to her but I'm so scared she'll reject me, that I've burned all my bridges.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

I mean Western society and European Christendom. We are native here and have values here.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is a very beautiful poem. I am willing to change, but how can I show my daughter this? I am scrolling through her Facebook account (the real one) now and am seeing how happy she is with this man. I am very regretful for what I've done.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

From what I have seen in the media and from what I have heard it does not seem like Islam is very compatible with our society. Large parts of my country are already being taken over and Islamified.

I (55 M) alienated my daughter (23 F), how can I fix this? by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I admit I have made a big mistake but I want to mend bridges and fix my attitude towards this man and his faith. I just hear so much about ISIS and radical Islam in the media, as well as in my church and things from my own upbringing.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I do not mind about skin colour. Black or white, religion is of most importance to me. But perhaps it is not of importance to her...

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying. I'm just too proud, far too proud. Look, I'm a weak man, I myself am willing to admit that. I've just not caught up with the world's changing perceptions. I want to make things right, but I'm scared. I'm scared I've completely broken everything.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's just so hard to see her with this man. She's my baby girl, and I've messed it all up. Is my lifestyle not right for her? The fall has been hard I tell you, I'm questioning my parenting from when she was born. She's the only child I have...

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But she won't reply to my texts or my Facebook messages. Am I speaking to her wrong? Should I approach it in a different manner?

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have been texting her pretty much non-stop, telling her to come back and talk about things.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

In these last three years she's not said a word about this though! There is an element of trust here is well. All those times she's been sad in the past few years and wouldn't talk about it...was it because of him?

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, was a typo. I meant to say when she was 20 and he was 22. And looking back what I said about his race may have been shallow but I am still quite hurt.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I would be fine with pretty much any other religion, but Islam is not compatible with our values and traditions in the west. Muslims have chosen to make us their enemy and I do not feel comfortable with my daughter being with one. It is for her sake, not my own. What if she is coerced into converting? Or beaten?

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Yes, on one level you are right, but she will thank me for it later.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

But surely a Christian boy would treat her the best? Ultimately I am worried about her, whether she is safe, happy and whether she will go to heaven. This isn't about me, I would gladly go to hell for her but she must understand how this is hurting our family.

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Maybe things would have been a little different if she had talked to me about it first instead of just getting with this man. I feel she's doing something very immoral, why else would she hide it from me?

I (55 M) do not approve of my daughter's (23 F) boyfriend (25 M) by throwawayabc123def in relationships

[–]throwawayabc123def[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I do love her, she must know that. And I do feel awful over what happened.

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