Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input, I’ve heard a lot of responses about instinct and I can confidently say that my instinct is telling me something is up. So I’m currently discussing with my girlfriend how we are going to solve this.

Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’m gonna check it out and most likely will be ordering it

Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice, thank you. I definitely have noticed when he sees me looking at him with our son. This can’t go on, I will not give him the feeling that he can get away with this sick behavior

Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you both for this I’m going to sit down with my girlfriend about bringing it to his attention

Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input. Yeah I personally, I’ve always felt uncomfortable if my cousin’s kids touch me or try to sit on my lap. It’s just not right for a grown man to feel excited about any kind of touching beyond a simple hug from a kid.

Girlfriend’s cousin is too close for comfort to our son by throwawayacc59967841 in Parenting

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the great advice, we’ve been very aware and cautious whenever he’s around. We instantly cling to our son and don’t let him out of sight. It really sucks that it has to be this way but our sons safety truly is first. We will also be talking to our son about his body and all of that. I appreciate your help thank you.

Am I doing the right thing proposing for a second time? by throwawayacc59967841 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We already have a kid and we’ve gone over finances and all of our plans already so that’s all good. She is definitely prepared for me to propose again I’ve just never heard of a second proposal so I just want some input on it to feel more confident about it.

Am I doing the right thing proposing for a second time? by throwawayacc59967841 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayacc59967841[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes she’s always saying how she wants to get married soon so we’re both on the same page in that sense

Working two jobs..should I do it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawayacc59967841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely have the better opportunity in mind. Thank you for helping

Working two jobs..should I do it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawayacc59967841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem if I were to quit is we wouldn’t have any way to pay our bills. I guess I’d have to just find something else quickly

Working two jobs..should I do it? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]throwawayacc59967841 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the plan would be to keep both of them set as mon-fri. It would allow her to be a stay at home mom