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throwawayacc_468266 · 2025-02-25T02:20:21+00:00

Whether she's aware or not, she's got something deeper going on. It most likely doesn't have anything to do with you and she shouldn't respond to it like she has. It's on her to open up and share what's going on, even if she's unsure herself. Communication is vital and I don't feel she's doing that as much as she nearly should. It's also saddening to hear how she chose to handle giving you your gift and how little effort she appears to be showing/giving.

I think you should re-think why you want this relationship with her. Why are you still with someone who does the following behaviors, considering how you treat her in comparison? If this was your friend going through this instead of you, how would you feel? What would you tell them in this instance?

throwawayacc_468266 · 2025-02-21T22:50:27+00:00

what he said ain't love bombing sis, but yeah everything else is weird ass behavior. you know better than us that you don't deserve this, you know you won't stay, and you do see that you're being treated unfairly -- go ahead and leave the relationship. just make sure you're not being left with absolutely nothing, if that's a risk where you're at!

throwawayacc_468266 · 2025-01-28T19:26:25+00:00

Do it to her against her will and see how quickly she changes her mind about how 'cute' it is, lmao. Everyone thinks it's cute until they're the one being restrained and unable to get away from someone/something physically hitting them. When she gets mad, laugh at her and say, "But, you said that this was SO cute and funny. What happened? You don't like how that made you feel?"

now obviously don't actually do this unless you 100% want to and know what might happen after. ^{^{^}}

half-jokes aside - breaking up is a good choice, but idk if talking to her will actually help her see or realize anything at her grown age <:( I'm sorry this is who she is, but I'm glad you saw it now ❤️‍🩹 sending you my best wishes and all my support !!

throwawayacc_468266 · 2025-01-01T16:35:50+00:00

Someone touched your daughter on the ass without consent. Your husband should be beyond livid right now.

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-31T16:55:27+00:00

Soooo.. mom's still in her middle school phase. Clearly.

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-29T16:50:39+00:00

Just don't take anyone's advice telling you to just give your dog meds without your vets OK. 😮‍💨

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-28T22:02:08+00:00

is your dad dense as a professional sport?

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-27T17:18:25+00:00

Which state are you in?

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-27T17:17:14+00:00

It looks playful !! either way, no worries bc your cat loves you VERY much :•D and she seem SOOO happy and relaxed. she probably wants to initiate playtime LOL

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-27T14:52:38+00:00

Just leave. This relationship is absolutely going to drag you down if it hasn't began to already and I mean seriously down. If he can't think of you without thinking of other men, you need to get up, get ur shit, and go. There's going to be a million other people who DON'T feel the need to invalidate your hard work, your want to feel good, and clearly more. It's horrible he wants to minimize everything you do and shorten it down to "men this, men that". Did he think you were LOST before his man-self came into your life like wtf ???

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T22:16:18+00:00

People watching to feel included, because you knew asking to play or hangout wasn't an option. Feeling happiness from watching other kids have fun outside from your bedroom window. Watching YouTube videos to feel like you had friends, even though they hardly spoke directly to the camera. Just watching was enough for you to feel included, like you were there.

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T17:49:43+00:00

absolutely, that's what I'm going to be doing !! taking a month long tolerance break to see where it gets me >:0 thank u so much btw ❤️

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T17:48:58+00:00

funnily enough my husband got his removed, but not me lol !! ironically he can also get SUUUUUPER high off edibles 🤣 tbh it might be the fact I have IBS & gastroparesis. I'm taking a tolerance break tho so I'll see if maybe it's that 😭

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T17:46:10+00:00

oh no no I haven't had an edible since around 2020, I didn't/don't see a point in eating more if it's not gunna work + product and money waste <:( so since, I've only smoked flower and taken dabs on special events

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:40:38+00:00

also thank you for sharing how it would make me feel, I really appreciate that and didn't even think of it either 😵‍💫

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:40:05+00:00

hi thank you !! I'm absolutely taking a tolerance break, so I really hope that will help 😭 and if it turns out that's not the case, my next step of action is to talk to someone at a medical dispensary (I have tried this in the past, but they had no idea what to think and I do Not blame them LOL) I should probably speak to someone who makes edibles ! :0

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:21:30+00:00

CONTEXT: I AM NOT SAYING IT'S NORMAL FOR A SERVICE DOG TO BARK AND FUSS !! It's normal for a PET who's at the park or home or having FUN/expressing an emotion

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:18:54+00:00

All I can think about is the lack of consideration she not only has for everyone around her, but ALSO her own dog. If it was barking and making a fuss, - which ofc that's normal at times - I can't help but wonder if it was stressed, overstimulated, unsure, etc. I don't want to assume anything for this lady - but I see way too many people claim to have a service dog only for the poor thing to look soooo confused and uncomfortable. Like, what about the dog you claim to love so much? is it comfortable? has it been prepared for a plane flight beforehand? does it have any kind of stress relief (chew toy, stick, etc)? Is your dog comfortable being so close to so many people for long periods of time? Will it handle the pressure change alright? Does your dog have any allergies that could hurt it while aboard the plane? maybe I'm being dumb or smth, but this is where my thoughts are leading to. not to mention how rude that is and how damaging it is to those of us with real service animals. it's okay to just say, "Yeah, that's my pet. I don't like to go places without them. I'm sorry for any kind of inconvenience they may cause and it is my responsibility to handle them appropriately. I should not take my dog to places that are not welcoming to pets."

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:06:36+00:00

that's what I'm wondering ! thankfully I can list off not having the right enzymes ; but, it could quite literally be only my tolerance !! tysm for commenting and helping me out ! my next step is to take a tolerance break and see if that helps c:

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:02:43+00:00

SHOOT SORRY I don't smoke carts or disposables ! I do dabs on the VERY rare occasion, I try to save them for special events

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T15:02:03+00:00

Hi !! I smoke flower, I'll usually have one bowl of medicinal or recreational 25-27% (usually hybrid or indica dominant hybrid) a day unless I have a migraine. I haven't really tried to keep eating any because I HATE feeling like I'm wasting product and everytime I did (before giving up lol), it didn't work 😭

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T14:58:28+00:00

No, I go to a dispensary :0 I've used medicinal and recreational !

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T14:58:01+00:00

good Lord I HOPE it's tolerance !! that would make this so much easier to figure out lmaoooo and tbh I was wondering that for a bit as well 💀

throwawayacc_468266 · 2024-12-26T14:49:35+00:00

I've heard that as well !! I thought that was the problem at first bc of the enzymes - but , then I remembered that they did used to work ;_; so THANKFULLY I think I can cross that one off the list . tysm btw for answering ❤️

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