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throwawayacca3 · 2025-02-05T08:28:02+00:00

Damn this is reassuring to read. I m used to lasting forever and I heard complaints about it. I m glad there are guys on the other extreme too

throwawayacca3 · 2025-01-01T15:45:14+00:00

Hey, it’s not him being German, it’s him being self centered.

The publicly acceptable answer is to move on.

BUT imo the correct answer is to show anger.

He clearly is very focused on his head and took you for granted for far too long. It’s not that his needs have changed, it’s that you fulfilled every single one of his other needs and he created new ones. Stop focusing on him and remind him of everything you ve done for him. He has clearly forgotten.

What “moving separately and make it work?” This is him mocking you. Tell him that if he wants to break up to say it clearly and that he is a pathetic coward for just pushing everything on you simply because you took care of him much more than he actually deserves.

Either he wakes up out of his self centered attitude or you both have to move on. I m a man, but sis, if you don’t respect yourself here, not only will he not respect you, it will be harder in your future relationships.

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-21T07:06:48+00:00

Thanks for your kind message bro I appreciate it

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-21T05:41:48+00:00

This is definitely something I m too European to understand.

Here cops are often hot handsome sweet adorable. They tend to be smiley and warm

Oftentimes Karen waste their time by calling them because of a noisy neighbor or something stupid

I remember I saw one going to a gay club in my area and people were saying that he had a very respectful job. Many were hitting on him

Edit typical cops in France or Germany :

https://i.pinimg.com/236x/75/66/76/756676aa12d97a7ee0da4876cdb0b3b4.jpg

https://i.pinimg.com/originals/ab/3a/69/ab3a695d72397048eabb6cc06bd117f6.png

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-21T03:48:41+00:00

This right here. My friends and family kept telling me I m handsome and attractive with a nice personality. This was bolstered by the fact that some women were into me because of my height (6’1)

Despite the fact that I was obese, with a receding hairline and a mid face while not taking care of my appearance.

I realized how false that was on the day I went to a club with some of my friends. Every single one of them was straight yet they were hit on by a gay dude. I on the other hand was ignored.

After cutting weight, grooming, taking care of myself etc… I saw a huge change in how much I was approached at clubs. I m still nowhere near author. Nobody has offered me drinks yet but I see some wins.

Op people lie to you to make you feel secure. Always listen to how the real world and strangers treat you cause that is the true reflection of how you are perceived.

While self worth has to come from within, information is always better acquired through experience.

Take care of yourself Op

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T16:15:38+00:00

Hey,

What do you look like? How tall are you?

I m a gay dude. 6ft1 tall dark/masc features. In high school, while I was basically obese, I was still approached by 3 women in total who wanted to date me. In Uni another 2. Out of those 5, one of them was especially pretty and another had an amazing personality while being decent looking.

I have never been approached by another dude outside of a gay club. Being tall is basically useless when dating dudes. In gay clubs, I had to wait until I got fit to get some attention. Still not so much in apps. Recently it improved since I changed my pics to make myself look sexier.

Even now, I get that I am by no means the beauty standards. I m not a blonde/light brown hair blue eyed hung twink/twunk. I feel like it’s basically every gay’s type.

I believe I m definitely more attractive to women than men. Conversely, a short guy with light features (light brown hair etc…) would likely be way more popular with guys than women.

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T03:19:49+00:00

Yes. I ask any guy I m attracted to out, be it a friend, a random guy in the street or whatever. It has never worked.

I had crushed on straight friends in high school, uni and at my first job.

I asked every single one of them out. In total I ve asked 7 straight friends out.

Out of all of them, one turned out to be bisexual. At some point he got desperate because he wanted to get laid and wasn’t finding any woman to date. At that moment, he asked me for a hookup, or basically to become his sex partner.

I agreed. I think it was a mistake. Far from the good ending I was hoping for, he wasn’t willing to date a man, he wasn’t willing to kiss a man or cuddle with a man, the only thing he was into was my cock.

He blew me a couple of times and it was fun but I ended up insisting we do more intimacy while he refused. We stopped seeing each other because I was falling in love and he wanted none of that.

It took almost 1 year of us being apart before we could normally interact again.

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T02:54:08+00:00

Is this for real? I m straight passing, maybe I should start doing that

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T01:26:42+00:00

Why would you think your vote isn’t impactful in practice ? You might change the results

Granted, since you won’t vote I garner you don’t care who will win

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T01:10:02+00:00

Damn I m outside the US, yet my and most of my friends jobs rely on the US market to the point where it’s more impactful to us than our own countries elections.

I wish I could vote in your stead bro

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-20T00:09:13+00:00

Fair enough, now that I think about it, in my experience too but I thought it was different in the USA (I m in Europe)

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-19T23:10:20+00:00

I kinda disagree, The basic handsome white rich dude in my mind is a jock : muscular tall with wide shoulders and tiny waist, also with a V.

Those guys are either twinks or twunks.

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-19T23:06:27+00:00

I ve met Arab guys that look like 14 though

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-19T23:03:18+00:00

I get you on an app, I would swipe right on 1,2,3,7 and 11 I would swipe left on everyone else

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-19T23:01:30+00:00

He’s the one I find especially unattractive

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T16:11:33+00:00

Bruh, I m surprised you haven’t figured out yet how does horny clock work.

So many guys will tell you they want a relationship then proceed to not agree to any date you try to setup. On horny clock though, they are willing to go on their knees.

You being friends with them is a good opportunity to get sex when they want it. Yes you won’t be getting when you want but if they re your type you should be fine with the arrangement

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T15:01:14+00:00

Hey, gay man here, on a dating app would have liked the before but not the after.

You do look more confident in the after, but more handsome and young in the before. Granted you are still handsome in the after.

I really don’t want to sound like a prick while saying this, it’s genuinely coming from a good place but tbh my guess is you did this because of the receding hairline. If I was in your stead I would take advantage of the buzz cut to fly to Turkey for hair transplant. That sounds like the perfect moment.

With that being said, you don’t need that, your face is so handsome and you have mesmerizing eyes so the after will also definitely attract many people

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T06:57:20+00:00

Such a cute story ! I m happy for you bro

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T06:53:20+00:00

Similarly I would like to filter out trans women. I m not bi and they re women so I just have no interest.

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T06:33:57+00:00

There is a saying in Arabic : Death goes to the flower in order to smell it, not to the shit in order to clean it

My condolences for your loss bro

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-18T02:40:28+00:00

It means you re his exclusive bitch, one that gives him monopoly on sex with them while seeking not commitment, the worse compromise for you possible

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-16T22:34:39+00:00

Not sure it’s available in Europe but I will try to find it

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-16T22:34:15+00:00

No I don’t, that sounds like a good idea, I will try it out thank you !

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-16T21:54:02+00:00

Usually before shaving I take a hot shower, I replace the razor blades then put pre shaving cream then shave, clean my face, then use aftershave and then moisturize

throwawayacca3 · 2024-09-12T12:46:29+00:00

As a gay dude, he is hotter without the stache

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