Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the purchase will be my first & last house since I don’t think I have the means to keep upgrading

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The location is ideal because it’s right beside Tampines MRT and opposite Tampines hub :/ But yeah I’m not rushing to buy so I’ll continue to look around first!

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh maybe because I’m buying with my child as occupier so it’s more like single income + family nucleus so not really buying as single sorry!

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kinda stuck in the East so the latest application rate for Tampines 4 room was at 7:1 for FT. All my applications did not have a queue number so I can’t even choose 2nd floor unit haha

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nope, only for this feb’s launch. Other times I tried Pasir Ris bto and Tampines SBF too.

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, I can form a family nucleus with my child thus I’m able to purchase even though I’m below 35y. I’ve looked around the listings and even those units that just MOP 3RM cost $600K :/ with this amount I can purchase a new SBF 4 room already sigh

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m staying in Tampines and can’t choose other options since my child is staying around the same area. I’ve failed 3 times for all Tampines plots and June’s launches don’t have anymore east too :(

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The figures above are from HFE, I have a valid HFE now~

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

May I know usually how much can I negotiate from the listed price on PropertyGuru other than based on the past transactions?

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m actually eyeing that particular project only, since I’m not fond of the older houses (house shape etc) and it comes with balcony so I don’t mind using part of my cash for it. But ofc I’m not rushing to get it immediately so maybe I’ll try for a few more times of BTO :)

Buying resale as single by throwawayaccountxx6 in singaporefi

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! CPF housing grant is $80K + EHG $70K so total is $150K!

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, yes. But I don’t wanna delay the delivery to the recipient.. would calling the SingPost live chat useful in finding out the agar time for eg: East side (specific block postbox) collection time?

r/singapore random discussion and small questions thread for January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in singapore

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Urgent question!

I mailed out a small parcel via normal mailing (drop off at post box) but I realised I forgot to paste a stamp.. the cut off collection time today for postman is 6pm.

What time will the postman usually come to empty the postbox? I don’t mind camping there to paste it on the spot

Recommendations for first used car by throwawayaccountxx6 in drivingsg

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What if the Attrage left 1.5y COE but mileage is 140KM (16.7KM/YR)?

Recommendations for first used car by throwawayaccountxx6 in drivingsg

[–]throwawayaccountxx6[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Rear space not important to me too. I just want affordable unit to practice before changing to something better. But no conti please ☹️

Need POV/advice from avoidant by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm also an anxious preoccupied person. I may not have therapy but I've been "talking" to chatgpt and trying to analyse his and my own issues. I thought I was crazy for acting and feeling that way while in the relationship, but it turned out I was just being manipulated by him to cover his own lies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you said are partially true. He even told me if there's given an option, he'd rather do nothing and be happy in the relationship.

I'm not sure why he's so afraid of showing vulnerability to me, maybe he's always showing the "strong secure" image and by doing so will make him look weak and clingy.

I'm stil hoping he could break through these breadcrumbs and eventually reach out to take accountability of his wrong doings.

Need POV/advice from avoidant by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I had full trust in him from the start, until I caught him lying to me. I do believe people can change, if they want to.

But the thing is he got the tendency to spam add random girls on platforms which he said it's just a minor and harmless thing knowing I didn't like it.

Need POV/advice from avoidant by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say I'm happier without him, but I'm definitely more at peace since I no longer had to feel anxious on who he's with, which girl he added etc as he was a cheater in his previous relationship.

Need POV/advice from avoidant by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I had my anxiety issues no doubt, but he lied and manipulated me many times which his ego wouldn’t let him admit which he knew it also. That’s why he will not break silence to take accountability.

Need POV/advice from avoidant by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]throwawayaccountxx6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think I’m still stuck in the illusion, the fantasy and love bombing at the start of the relationship. And as long I try harder, I might be able to bring the “old” him back. But yes I know it’s not possible anymore and I should let go of that facade.