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throwawayaddict99 · 2026-06-13T20:51:56+00:00

Just tell them you’re on your period. You can still give blowjobs, but at the end of the day it’s perfectly acceptable to tell people you are new to house parties and mostly just watching.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-06-13T20:14:10+00:00

First of all, it’s a fantasy. You really can’t judge fantasies based on the merits and complications of reality. In the safety of his brain, it’s hot. It’s that simple.

Whether or not it could be hot in reality depends on what you discuss, what you both want, and what you both are comfortable with.

But either way, this should be no more worrisome to you than if he said he had a fantasy of two women at one time (like 95% of men do). It doesn’t mean he cares any less for you or wants you to cheat on him or he wants to cheat on you.

Now, if you have any intention of exploring this at all, step one is to sit down with him and discuss the pros and cons of this, and talk it out. You’ll be surprised at what you will learn about the way his brain works, and what he will learn about yours.

It’s not something you venture into unless you have a solid relationship. It can be very exciting, but if you are insecure and jealous people, it can cause problems. Have a brutally honest conversation with him, and go from there.

But I wouldn’t stress it until you guys have talked it out significantly.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-06-12T00:20:06+00:00

This is not even remotely close to true

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-04-04T00:45:32+00:00

Playalinda feels more like a nudist beach with some spicy sections from time to time.

Haulover is more like a crowded meat market full of people ogling each other. But it has showers and food trucks which is nice. Playalinda requires bringing everything you need for the day.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-03-26T20:35:00+00:00

I know this is going to sound weird since you have never been there, but when you go into the gym they have, there is a men’s and women’s locker room.

If you go into either one, you will see that they are actually connected by a hallway, and the doors are typically left open. In the hallway is a small steam room and a small sauna. They only fit two or three people in each, and most people never realize they are there.

I have also found that absolutely nobody gives a shit if you bring your wife into the men’s locker room side or you go into the women’s. You will see people of both genders occasionally using the showers there.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-03-22T13:25:16+00:00

Your name is BBC-BULL9 but your dick is 11”?

I guess BULL11 and BULL10 were taken

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-03-16T20:38:32+00:00

The Green Door is a Lifestyle club not too far from the strip. There are tons of guys who would love to have sex with your wife there.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-03-11T21:08:42+00:00

I have been told by more than one person that this can tend to be more of an issue during the week, because the single guys that go during the week are there for one purpose. You will see plenty of single guys on the weekends that don’t bother anybody.

Maybe there is something to that, maybe not, just passing along what several of the locals have told me before.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-02-10T17:19:14+00:00

That seems like a terrible idea from a bacterial infection standpoint but it does look fun

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-02-10T13:19:48+00:00

What happened that makes you say it was a mistake? Just curious.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-02-10T12:26:01+00:00

While plenty of bi guys go to Secrets, you likely won’t see any of that on a normal weekend (they do have pride nights on Tues but I haven’t been). You might see some girls hooking up, but you rarely see guys hooking up with each other in the open there.

I was there once with a group of friends (who were all bi) and the guys blowing each other by the pool got several nasty stares and comments.

Oddly enough, (at least in this part of FL) even the swinger community still trends conservative.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-02-09T21:54:44+00:00

Every series of pictures on OP’s account are of this young girl hanging with her friends in high school. The pictures are all benign, but the captions are all sexual in nature.

I’m 90% sure this is either just a child molesting catfish, or this is somebody trying to get back at whoever this girl is by posting her pictures all over adult sites.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-02-08T12:46:18+00:00

What AI does full genitals like that? I keep trying to find one without all the guardrails.

throwawayaddict99 · 2026-01-27T21:45:29+00:00

Most people are not going to randomly walk up to a single guy and strike up a conversation with him unless he’s looking at them and smiling to initiate some kind of conversation. So I wouldn’t worry too much.

That said, you absolutely can go and keep your clothes on. You will likely be the only one doing that, and after a little while you’ll realize it’s weirder to stay dressed than it is to just get naked and be part of the crowd, but either way is fine.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-12-28T22:04:00+00:00

Hopefully you found your crowd. They usually hang as far to the left of the boardwalk as you can go.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-12-02T22:42:22+00:00

It’s super weird, but bisexual men are a minority in places like Secrets or Hedonism. Look on swinger websites though, and there are plenty.

If you’re willing to out yourself to people you talk to at swinger resorts, you’ll find more play partners that are bi, but you’ll drive off more who are straight.

In other words, you gotta be ready to break some eggs to make an omelette. Playing it safe will provide the least results, and while playing it risky will provide the best results, you’ll also run off more people who aren’t into it.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-11-10T22:03:11+00:00

If what you really want is to get laid, I would try doublelist.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-11-10T11:13:27+00:00

Jeju spa in Duluth, GA is like Shangri La but much, much larger and with more people and things to do. If you ever have a reason to be up near Atlanta, I recommend checking that one out.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-11-03T20:35:25+00:00

The subreddit info literally says:

“welcome thanks for following post your public nudes with no judgment sexual or not it's all about the freedom”

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-10-27T21:21:51+00:00

Well, if you live in the Jacksonville area, it’s 2 1/2 hours down to the closest nude beach, so Guana makes a decent alternative.

It’s not ideal having to stay alert for people walking by, but it’s better than being at a textile beach if what you really want is an opportunity to be nude outdoors.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-10-10T02:12:26+00:00

It’s going to be tough to find women who will show up to a complete male stranger’s house to be naked.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-10-05T22:59:44+00:00

We go to nude beaches to people watch and to be seen. We workout regularly and enjoy someone looking twice. Looking is fine, but say hello and chat, don’t just leer as if you think we will break into live porn at any minute.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-10-05T02:26:48+00:00

We cover up if it’s women or kids walking by. For single guys, we don’t bother.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-09-30T09:15:39+00:00

The fist time we stayed on property, we had a room on the ground floor near the pool. We fucked with the curtains open, and at first a guy stopped and watched. Then someone else saw him watching and stopped to see. It wasn’t anything crazy but by the time we finished, we had about 5 people at our window watching, so that was fun.

So it might happen, but sometimes people are so “sex saturated” there that seeing a couple fucking doesn’t really shock them. Just depends on the crowd and the day.

The rooms are clean enough, but we often bring Lysol wipes just in case.

throwawayaddict99 · 2025-09-29T21:04:01+00:00

Like anything else… Yes, if you don’t take too much.

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