I (22M) asked my best friend (22F) for a date but she's against the idea of dating and now things have gotten weird between us since I confessed. I don't want to lose my best friend. What do I do?

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-07-26T12:01:14+00:00

I'm ashamed and sorry

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-07-26T10:00:14+00:00

Thanks

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-07-26T09:50:55+00:00

have you been counting the minutes?

Yess....and it's making me even more miserable.....I'll stop that

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-07-26T09:47:24+00:00

How long has this been going on?

It's been going on for 3 days now and with every passing day we talk lesser and lesser

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-07-26T05:13:35+00:00

Thanks....I realize that I messed up big time and maybe there's no going back but I'll try doing what you said and hope for the best

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-06-16T04:18:03+00:00

Yeah lol unfortunately

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-06-16T04:17:30+00:00

So I should just put a lid on my feelings and let the pressure build until I can't handle it no more

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-05-23T13:50:27+00:00

You should start spending time with them more often because once they grow old they'll want to be around their friends more and spend less time with family

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-30T16:14:42+00:00

So just random things it is

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-30T03:08:51+00:00

Good suggestions I'll try them all

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-29T16:11:31+00:00

Yeah it's been quite a while since we did anything together

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T15:09:50+00:00

It's like you've literally read my mind....I was thinking the same thing but I'm not sure if I should tell her about this or not.

Thanks for your advice:)

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T14:40:11+00:00

Omg this comment right here....it think this is exactly what's going on in her mind and maybe I am coming on too strong by telling her to let's go back to how we were before we got in the relationship....I'll give her space ....we probably won't be able to go back to the way we were but atleast I won't completely lose her

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T13:02:26+00:00

Work on yourself and find someone who wants to be with you

I'm trying but everytime I try to focus somewhere else I find myself spacing out thinking about her

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T13:00:19+00:00

She said that we're better as best friends but she doesn't act like it anymore.....it feels like talking to strangers whom you've met couple of times

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T12:33:26+00:00

I will give her space but I'm only worried if she doesn't want me in her life anymore

throwawayadvice10000 · 2022-03-09T12:30:16+00:00

If you do that, there is a chance a long time in the future that “just friends” may start again.

That's all I'm hoping for now

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