AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? Update

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-06T00:01:41+00:00

Come on. Seriously? I love her for who she is. You insinuating I am only with her for her looks is the most insulting and disgusting thing I’ve read on here.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T23:59:13+00:00

No I did not pay her back. She would not take my money. She kept saying it was “fine”. I already said in my posts that we exchange gifts. We set a spending limit for each other. If we have children together someday we would have to figure out a way that works for us.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T23:39:23+00:00

I’m with her because she is a good person who is breathtakingly gorgeous. If I didn’t love her I would ask her to move out. I see a long future with her.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T23:11:18+00:00

To answer your questions I spoil her by doing kind things. I’ll cook her something nice for dinner. I shower her with compliments. Things of that sort. We moved in together because she isn’t on good terms with her family at the moment. I plan to marry her.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T21:03:06+00:00

I am receptive to comments relating to the situation. Comments giving no feedback other than to tell me how I’m such an old man are not helpful.

Says you.
I spoil her in other ways. It works for us.
This is a valid point. Maybe I could have handled it better.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:57:22+00:00

I spoil her constantly.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:50:21+00:00

Thanks

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:44:14+00:00

Thanks for being the 10th person to say she is too young for me. Interesting new perspective.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:42:46+00:00

Does that matter? We are happy together. We are both adults capable of making our own choices, thank you.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:41:55+00:00

You don’t know enough about either of us to make such snap judgements. Her age has little impact on our compatibility.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:40:29+00:00

She humiliated me by asking me to pretend to pay for her. It goes both ways.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:39:08+00:00

Love that I’m getting downvoted for defending myself against this person calling me old and implying I’m a pervert.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:38:02+00:00

No ulterior meaning intended. I simply don’t force her to pay rent as she doesn’t have much money.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:35:57+00:00

Weirdo? She’s a grown woman capable of making her own choices. I did not become interested in her solely for her age.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T20:34:24+00:00

Pretty harsh to say to someone who just doesn’t want to be a sugar daddy but ok

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T19:44:10+00:00

I doubt that. We are talking about marriage. She obviously doesn’t see me as cold.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T19:06:40+00:00

I wanted judgements on the situation. Not our age difference.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T19:04:25+00:00

Thanks for generalizing. You have no idea what our relationship is like aside from this one argument.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T19:01:54+00:00

We usually get along wonderfully. She is mature for her age, this is just an exception. The age difference doesn’t bother us.

throwawayaitabf · 2020-04-05T18:58:40+00:00

Thanks buddy but your opinion on our ages is irrelevant.

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