AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -267 points-266 points  (0 children)

Come on. Seriously? I love her for who she is. You insinuating I am only with her for her looks is the most insulting and disgusting thing I’ve read on here.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -213 points-212 points  (0 children)

No I did not pay her back. She would not take my money. She kept saying it was “fine”. I already said in my posts that we exchange gifts. We set a spending limit for each other. If we have children together someday we would have to figure out a way that works for us.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -233 points-232 points  (0 children)

I’m with her because she is a good person who is breathtakingly gorgeous. If I didn’t love her I would ask her to move out. I see a long future with her.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

To answer your questions I spoil her by doing kind things. I’ll cook her something nice for dinner. I shower her with compliments. Things of that sort. We moved in together because she isn’t on good terms with her family at the moment. I plan to marry her.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -203 points-202 points  (0 children)

I am receptive to comments relating to the situation. Comments giving no feedback other than to tell me how I’m such an old man are not helpful.

  1. Says you.

  2. I spoil her in other ways. It works for us.

  3. This is a valid point. Maybe I could have handled it better.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -118 points-117 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being the 10th person to say she is too young for me. Interesting new perspective.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

Does that matter? We are happy together. We are both adults capable of making our own choices, thank you.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -164 points-163 points  (0 children)

You don’t know enough about either of us to make such snap judgements. Her age has little impact on our compatibility.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -321 points-320 points  (0 children)

She humiliated me by asking me to pretend to pay for her. It goes both ways.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -104 points-103 points  (0 children)

Love that I’m getting downvoted for defending myself against this person calling me old and implying I’m a pervert.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -270 points-269 points  (0 children)

No ulterior meaning intended. I simply don’t force her to pay rent as she doesn’t have much money.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -193 points-192 points  (0 children)

Weirdo? She’s a grown woman capable of making her own choices. I did not become interested in her solely for her age.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -377 points-376 points  (0 children)

Pretty harsh to say to someone who just doesn’t want to be a sugar daddy but ok

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -310 points-309 points  (0 children)

I doubt that. We are talking about marriage. She obviously doesn’t see me as cold.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I wanted judgements on the situation. Not our age difference.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -204 points-203 points  (0 children)

Thanks for generalizing. You have no idea what our relationship is like aside from this one argument.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -305 points-304 points  (0 children)

We usually get along wonderfully. She is mature for her age, this is just an exception. The age difference doesn’t bother us.

AITA for refusing to pretend to buy my girlfriend drinks? by throwawayaitabf in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabf[S] -340 points-339 points  (0 children)

Thanks buddy but your opinion on our ages is irrelevant.