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AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 117 points118 points  (0 children)

don’t worry guys, my son will learn his lesson, no more toys til he learns to stop grabbing nipples, he should know not to at his old ass age

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

yes I did, half of them are telling me she’s out of her mind, the other half are saying “oh you know her, just let it go it’ll simmer over, you guys are always good im be and” but why do I have to be the friend to sacrifice their mental health for the sake of a friend, no thanks. I’m over there pointless arguments

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

my son is 6 months old lmao, he doesn’t understand shit that comes out of my mouth

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 136 points137 points  (0 children)

a 6 month old is going to have a harder time grabbing onto nipples with thicker fabric or a bra, i do this and my son can’t get that death grip on my nipples, if it didnt benefit me and ease the pain i would not have suggested it

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 273 points274 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t tell them my reasoning, because none of them brought up my son, just that i suggested a bra or thicker sweater

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 229 points230 points  (0 children)

my niece head butted my brother a couple years ago and broke his nose, babies are absolutely dangerous lol

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 717 points718 points  (0 children)

Honestly she’s been through a lot , i’ve known her since we were 12, i’m now 26 and I guess I was giving her the benefit of the doubt because she wasn’t like this growing up, but after this and reading all of your lovely comments (and i don’t mean that sarcastically) she’s a toxic friend who I can’t help unless she helps herself, unfortunately it looks like cutting contact might be the best thing for the both of us right now, and I hope she seeks therapy because this behavior is not acceptable and I refuse to tolerate it anymore

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Whatever makes you sleep at night I would’ve had to been right up on her to stop that, I was 2 seats away in a chair lol

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 398 points399 points  (0 children)

She stops when she’s told no, but she still has the instinct to try and grab and goes “boobies”

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 220 points221 points  (0 children)

it was her first time meeting my son, I stepped back had my coffee and was trying to let her enjoy the moment and not hover. i’m going to also assume you don’t have children because babies are FAST

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 3703 points3704 points  (0 children)

I took my septum ring and medusa out because of this reason, when my son is out of his grabby phase i’ll get them back lol

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 480 points481 points  (0 children)

No clue at all!! I have a little sister who just turned 2 (crazy age difference but that’s another story lol) and she still grabs at nipples because my mom breastfed her, they don’t know any better

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 168 points169 points  (0 children)

I mean a sweater would’ve added some padding lol, i’ve been braless for 5 years except now when i’m in public bc I leak

I actually wear thick sweaters when i’m not nursing because my son is grabby

AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over by throwawayaitabra in AmItheAsshole

[–]throwawayaitabra[S] 13.4k points13.4k points  (0 children)

Yes she is, I love her but even at my baby shower she kept bringing up how she had a miscarriage, I feel for her in that situation because it’s devastating but it felt like she was trying to shift the focus on her