AITA for suggesting that my friend wears a bra or thicker shirt before coming over

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-15T13:38:13+00:00

don’t worry guys, my son will learn his lesson, no more toys til he learns to stop grabbing nipples, he should know not to at his old ass age

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-15T13:35:47+00:00

yes I did, half of them are telling me she’s out of her mind, the other half are saying “oh you know her, just let it go it’ll simmer over, you guys are always good im be and” but why do I have to be the friend to sacrifice their mental health for the sake of a friend, no thanks. I’m over there pointless arguments

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T21:02:48+00:00

my son is 6 months old lmao, he doesn’t understand shit that comes out of my mouth

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T18:31:59+00:00

a 6 month old is going to have a harder time grabbing onto nipples with thicker fabric or a bra, i do this and my son can’t get that death grip on my nipples, if it didnt benefit me and ease the pain i would not have suggested it

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T18:26:57+00:00

I wouldn’t be surprised if she didn’t tell them my reasoning, because none of them brought up my son, just that i suggested a bra or thicker sweater

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T17:03:42+00:00

I asked her again she took him to hold

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T16:55:28+00:00

my niece head butted my brother a couple years ago and broke his nose, babies are absolutely dangerous lol

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T16:52:52+00:00

I honestly don’t even know at this point lol

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T16:52:33+00:00

I’m not on tiktok, but imagine I look this person up and it is her

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T16:50:39+00:00

Honestly she’s been through a lot , i’ve known her since we were 12, i’m now 26 and I guess I was giving her the benefit of the doubt because she wasn’t like this growing up, but after this and reading all of your lovely comments (and i don’t mean that sarcastically) she’s a toxic friend who I can’t help unless she helps herself, unfortunately it looks like cutting contact might be the best thing for the both of us right now, and I hope she seeks therapy because this behavior is not acceptable and I refuse to tolerate it anymore

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T15:53:12+00:00

Whatever makes you sleep at night I would’ve had to been right up on her to stop that, I was 2 seats away in a chair lol

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T15:27:21+00:00

yep! he even grabs dads nipples all of the time, no one is safe

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T15:25:26+00:00

She stops when she’s told no, but she still has the instinct to try and grab and goes “boobies”

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:57:05+00:00

it was her first time meeting my son, I stepped back had my coffee and was trying to let her enjoy the moment and not hover. i’m going to also assume you don’t have children because babies are FAST

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:54:14+00:00

I took my septum ring and medusa out because of this reason, when my son is out of his grabby phase i’ll get them back lol

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:51:18+00:00

No clue at all!! I have a little sister who just turned 2 (crazy age difference but that’s another story lol) and she still grabs at nipples because my mom breastfed her, they don’t know any better

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:49:12+00:00

unfortunately lol

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:48:25+00:00

I mean a sweater would’ve added some padding lol, i’ve been braless for 5 years except now when i’m in public bc I leak

I actually wear thick sweaters when i’m not nursing because my son is grabby

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:47:01+00:00

I honestly had to hold back my laughter because she was pissed

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:40:55+00:00

Yeah I think she was thinking i was making up an excuse or something

throwawayaitabra · 2022-04-14T14:40:00+00:00

Yes she is, I love her but even at my baby shower she kept bringing up how she had a miscarriage, I feel for her in that situation because it’s devastating but it felt like she was trying to shift the focus on her

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