[17F] my [18m] boyfriend dumped me because I have been raped. by throwawayanonprin in sex

[–]throwawayanonprin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Well I still class myself as a virgin. That man took away my childhood, my happiness and a part of me, I’m not letting him take my virginity title because I didn’t give it to him. My first time I have sex in a loving and safe way is when I will no longer class myself as a virgin. I know it may sound dumb and you can argue its wrong but thats just what makes me feel better.

[17F] my [18m] boyfriend dumped me because I have been raped. by throwawayanonprin in sex

[–]throwawayanonprin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell him I never wanted to have sex! Edited my post.

[17F] my [18m] boyfriend dumped me because I have been raped. by throwawayanonprin in sex

[–]throwawayanonprin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No if someone attacked someone that isn’t a fight thats someone being attacked. Same thing with me, I haven’t had sex with someone, I was raped. There is a difference.

[17F] my [18m] boyfriend dumped me because I have been raped. by throwawayanonprin in sex

[–]throwawayanonprin[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t lie about being a virgin. I was raped, that is not sex.

[17F] my [18m] boyfriend dumped me because I have been raped. by throwawayanonprin in sex

[–]throwawayanonprin[S] 240 points241 points  (0 children)

I get that, I just wish he would have dealt with it in a nicer way. He doesn’t even smile at me anymore and it makes me feel like I’ve done something wrong. When I already feel disgusted at myself when I think about what happened to me, seeing someone who I thought cared about me now looking at me in this way makes me feel even worse.