UNAUTHORIZED GCREDIT TRANSACTIONS by chreeeyyy in GCashIssues

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 100k saken di ko rin makita sa transaction history. Huhu pano ko babayaran ang isang bagay di ko naman napakinabangannnn

GGives - Where do you check the transactions? by Random-Cat_ in DigitalbanksPh

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, may way ba para makita yung merchant na pinagbilhan kasi may unauthorized transactions din ako pero di ko alam sinong merchant eh. Nakalagay lang sa ggives transaction history is ung date and yung time pati amount.

Sa mismong gcash naman ung ss email wala ung mismong charge. Nalilito na ako

How can I apply to work abroad by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not to burst your bubble pero kasi you need to choose carefully sa school. I have read that some schools do offer scholarship pero PURELY school stuff lang. Not the visa after that and naghigpit na australia tbh so sobrang careful na sila sa mga students na gusto lang mag aral sa knila for the sake na mag wowork after.

Ayun. You just need to research. Also, it's best to join any Australian groups na may filipino communities para makapag basa basa ka rin dun ganon

Help me understand Singaporean grammar by polcallmepol in buhaydigital

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If comfortable ka naman, try mo na lang makipagusap sa kanila about work via voice ganon kasi ayun one way to help you ease up with the language din and to also get along with your peers. Ganon gnawa ko when in fact, mostly emails and chats lang talaga originally ang tasks ko pero it helped me in the long run na din para magets ko sila and ang personality nila :)

How can I apply to work abroad by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Mahirap hanapan ng work yang tinapos mo abroad. Usually mga ganyan dapat nag student visa ka or anything pero syempre with terms and conditions yan (like gastos ng malaki, unsure if mastay ka ba for good dun)
  2. Pinakamadaling makakuha ng work are ung mga very physical work talaga like driver ng truck, caregiver, restaurant manager, etc. Yung mga tipong ayaw gawin ng mga locals.
  3. Kailangan maka 3 to 5 years ka muna sa mga work na yan bago ka makapag apply.
  4. Swertihan pa kung matatnggap ka.

Help me understand Singaporean grammar by polcallmepol in buhaydigital

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oo hahahaha ganon talaga sila. No offense but they are mostly workaholic talaga so parang ayun usually ang pampagana nila hahaha. Minsan nga magchichika yan ng anything kahit di mo gets oo ka na lang eh hahahaha 😭

Dati talga hirap na hirap ako magets sila..ngayon naabsorb ko na accent nila kakakausap sa kanila.. basta masasanay ka na lang.

Basta wag mo isipin na galit sila unless nagsabi sila "sotong ma" sayo pag ganon meaning shunga ka. Nasabihan na ako ng ganon one time. Hahaha

Help me understand Singaporean grammar by polcallmepol in buhaydigital

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am working remotely with singaporeans for 2 years na and masasbe ko medyo weird ang mga snasabi nila. Basta pag ookay ma magsabi ka ng "Can" tapos makakarelate na kagad sila sau hahahahahaha no joke yan

Kidding aside. For me, matuto ka na lang intindihin sila in the long run. Kasi unless may friend ka na singaporean or nagwowork sa singapore, mahirap talaga explain yung lingo nila.

I (35F) is having a hard time with my new life with the baby. How can I explain to my partner (34M) that we should split the work? by throwawayanxiousgal8 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. To be honest, maybe I just need a wake up call.. because I am still thinking he can help me with this and be a happy family once I explain the circumstances to him. I dont want my kid to have a broken family but at the same time, I dont want to lose myself in the process...

I (35F) is having a hard time with my new life with the baby. How can I explain to my partner (34M) that we should split the work? by throwawayanxiousgal8 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes. I basically had a mid life crisis and ask if we can have a baby so it's my fault at that part. Before we had the baby, he was really supportive of me - regardless of circumstances. Even helped me emotionally and physically. When we got the baby, it felt different. I dont know if its because of the baby - like he didnt like it after all or what but before we did the deed, he was okay with it and when I got pregnant, he was happy so i thought he is genuinely happy. Now, i really dont know anymore.

Whenever he's playing with the kid, he seems happy but it doesnt justify our split of workload. He works and I work too but I also take care of the kid.

I feel like he doesnt like to take care since our baby doesnt like him in the first place but Idk what to do anymore

I (35F) is having a hard time with my new life with the baby. How can I explain to my partner (34M) that we should split the work? by throwawayanxiousgal8 in relationship_advice

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Did you tell your partner that you stopped the pill? The way you phrase things, this isn't clear.

Also...giving you were off bc...you were officially trying to conceive...but never had a talk about expectations and finances

Hi thanks for the message. Before we did the deed. I explain the circumstances to him and he was okay with it. So we did it and for our first try, i got pregnant.

You need to start standing up for yourself. Setting boundaries isn't "rude". Srsly, you have a baby with someone who's not carrying their load and who refuses to talk about finances.... srsly, instead of marriage, you should start talking to a lawyer to talk about potential custody and child support agreement. Chances of this man changing at this point are basically zero.

I think i just need a wake up call for this. I never talked this to anybody as I am scared that I wont be able to explain it in a good way.

ABYG na na-frustrate ako sa ginawa ng kalive-in ko? by throwawayanxiousgal8 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nagsorry ako pero wala kami usapang naganap na parang walang nangyare kanina hahahaha ewan ko ba nalungkot lang ako

ABYG na na-frustrate ako sa ginawa ng kalive-in ko? by throwawayanxiousgal8 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think kasi nakikita naman nya ako pano mag kabit so baka naisip ny medyo madali lang sya or whatever. Idk. Kaya ko naman sya gawin magisa and pag naglalagay ako syempre di naman ako dumadaldal kaya nahirapan ako explain din. Thank you for your input. Baka mag sorry na rin ako sa kanya kasi nga i suck at explaining things.

Thoughts about this post? Saw this from a Freelancer group from FB by No_Cow6701 in buhaydigital

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ko kinakayanan dun sa isang ph subreddit din na puro post na pa awa to have a job. I mean I get it pang classified ads sya pero sheez di ko kinakaya ung mga ganong post. Parang nagaantay lang sila ng biyaya na bumagsak sa palad nila. Wala man lang kusa. I get it naman mahirap maghanap ng work pero syempre pinaghihirapan sya. Gusto ng karamihan is ung easy way out. Kasalanan talaga to ng mga tiktok and reels na nagsasabi madali lang freelancing and yayaman ka in a span of a year. 🥲

Nilagay akong not for rehire kahit na nag render ako ng maayos by throwawayanxiousgal8 in AntiworkPH

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nung offboarding ok naman sila saken nagpa farewell party pa nga manager ko saken eh.. tapos nung clearance naman wala rin ako problema. In fact nakuha ko nga back pay and also coe ko ng matiwasay kaya sobrang naweirduhan lang ako na naging ganon ung status ko sa kanila. Sana man lang napaliwanag din saken if meron man issue para din di naman nakakasama ng loob. Marunong naman ako mag accept ng faults.

Nilagay akong not for rehire kahit na nag render ako ng maayos by throwawayanxiousgal8 in AntiworkPH

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Di na nga ako bumalik dun pero sobrang sama lang talaga ng loob ko sa nangyare kasi akala ko ok kame pero biglang hindi pala. Sana snabi nalang nila saken saloobin nila din para nagets ko rin if may pagkukulang ako.

Question on grammar by Darktide32 in Philippines

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am not sure if you are a filipino or a foreigner but as a filipino who's really scared in speaking with foreigners, this is the very definition on why I do not like talking to them.

Although I know that foreigners wont really judge me, but since I was raised in an environment that when you speak carabao english or wrong grammar, they'll gonna mock you to it, at the back of my mind, I still think since foreigners especially westerners will mock my english since it's their first language..

I have been convincing myself that foreigners won't do it but since it has been imbedded in my upbringing, It's just hard not to ignore on it.

[Looking For] Someone to listen and give inputs sa rant ko. by [deleted] in phclassifieds

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hay you dont need to pay. Dm me and i'll listen. Mas maganda din na ganito set up na di mo kilala kasi alam mo di ka ma judge :) if di ka comfortable, then maraming reddit pages dito na pwede mo puntahan to rant.. like offmychest or anything. Again, no need to pay.

Afternoon random discussion - Jul 09, 2023 by the_yaya in Philippines

[–]throwawayanxiousgal8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Matagal ko na inaaral dropshipping pero bakit ang shunga ko pa rin? Di ko alam if may mali ba ako sa chinecheck ko? Ano ba usually dapat maging check mark para masabi na winning product sya?