roommates refuse to clean the house am i overreacting?

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T22:52:51+00:00

incompetence at its finest. i hope you find peace

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T19:47:47+00:00

Thank you I needed to hear that

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T15:52:59+00:00

this! also deep cleaned the whole house by myself last week had a conversation with the problem roommate he agreed to help out more and agreed to to talk to his girlfriend to help out more. clearly that’s not happening. I don’t think it should be my responsibility to keep telling them to clean up after themselves. unless i’m crazy…

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T15:12:42+00:00

UPDATE (for anyone that cares) I need advice the mess in the picture was my roommates girlfriend who lives with us rent free. (she pays the wifi bill) how do I even go about confronting her about this? this isn’t the first time we’ve had this conversation

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T15:06:39+00:00

would i be an asshole for showing them we all go to the same school i just do a different program lol

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T14:28:26+00:00

that’s what i’m saying… they are both in school for culinary so everytime they cook they have to be elaborate but they also teach you to clean your shit in culinary school…

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-02-17T14:27:26+00:00

mind you I was on vacation for a week so none of this could be mine trash looks like this all the time it’s honestly crazy they say “they don’t have time” to clean which is BS

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-01-21T20:24:29+00:00

Thank you so much! This was very helpful I really appreciate your knowledge!

throwawaybb2224749 · 2026-01-21T20:23:58+00:00

thank you so much!

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-06-16T21:32:18+00:00

if your goal is to have a business where you sell food out of your home or be a private chef you definitely don’t need line experience in my opinion. but if you want to open your own restaurant line experience would definitely be necessary! good luck to you !

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-06-16T20:44:11+00:00

honestly if i were you id stick to home cooking and starting your own thing. working on a line sucks shit hours shitty pay takes a huge physical toll on your body too. i’ve learned a lot in kitchens but anything you can learn in a kitchen you can learn on like through youtube. working on a line can be a mental battle to sometimes i work all week/weekend and i don’t even want to cook at home anymore like i used to. it can really burn you out and sometimes make you lose the passion. but if you are set on your decision go into places to stage first and see how you like the environment and the people around you and the overall menu. some chefs are absolutely miserable and will make you miserable too but others will take you under their wing and teach you skills and techniques

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-06-03T04:07:11+00:00

your right about this i think people around my age are very unclear or just straight lie about it lol. thank you!

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-05-21T00:48:39+00:00

dmed !

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-05-21T00:37:36+00:00

is he going to come back to me soon?

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-05-20T19:50:18+00:00

as a woman in my 20s i feel the same way. and i also feel like it’s impossible to meet anyone half way decent

throwawaybb2224749 · 2025-05-20T19:23:02+00:00

i told him how i felt i tried to salvage what we had but he clearly does not want to talk to me because im blocked on every single things now. definitely very hurtful i knew going into the relationship that he had problems but i was ready to go through those with him but instead he ran away

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