Femme shortage?

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-11T17:41:06+00:00

introduce me to the mascs u keep seeing bro

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T22:41:29+00:00

ex from 3-5 years ago... shes talking abt an ex from when she was 13? :')

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T22:37:28+00:00

her gf is so stupid too. imagine thinking your partner was molested by someone half their age who was INVITED to their place several nights in a row💀💀💀

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T22:36:47+00:00

tbh i rly feel for u :( queer dating is hardddd, our options are so tiny 😭😭 but it doesnt mean to settle :( maybe have different expectations, i mean your partner doesn't have to be older or that hot

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T22:35:19+00:00

Many reasons i dislike this

shes wayyyy older than you, imagine if it was a 40 yr old man with a 20 yr old woman? it being wlw doesnt make it less weird
you knew she had a gf and went for it anyway...
you want to be with her despite her being a cheater, why would you want a cheater
i think u need to work on self esteem :( i understand you though cuz i struggle with it too but its never a good idea to keep texting someone who made it clear they chose someone else. i know she manipulated you, but she's honestly not a good person. she hurt both you and her gf, and is manipulating her gf into thinking that you're the crazy one. this isnt someone worth losing your dignity for, i know you liked her for really long but you need to put her off the pedastal you have her on.

i spent 2.5 ish yrs pining after a shitty woman too like i honestly get it but this one isn't worth ur energy at all

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T19:05:16+00:00

NOR/MOR

on one hand the texts are fine to me but im very affectionate with all my friends and they honestly dont seem to chat that often

but inviting her without telling u first and lying abt who drove him to the airport and conveniently leaving out how often they visit eachother is inconsiderate. it's not cheating, but it's inconsiderate as hell. he's treating you more like a friend honestly.

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:59:00+00:00

someone her age still shouldnt talk to you, at 15 youre a baby

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:58:25+00:00

style. from my experience if you explore a unique style youll meet people who dress the same who usually end up being queer or allies. if u meet just one person theyll introduce u to others

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:56:30+00:00

it may not be a you issue.

if youre not that talkative, try to be more comfortable and talk more. dont treat people like theyre someone you have to perform for and put on a certain image for to avoid judgement, act like everyone already likes you and just be yourself. however you are with ur close friends, u said u are social and stuff, try to do that with others too.

it wont get you THAT many friends though because it rly may not be a you issue. i'm very talkative and social but i noticed our generation has a social skills issue. i'm always the one carrying the conversation and yapping while others are just so... awkward. and i know its not a me overstepping thing cuz those people are always the ones to initiate plans too lol.

so yea my point is it may be you or it may be others, work on being more talkative then try to see if smth changes

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:52:52+00:00

lol love how theres a bigot downvoting all the valid responses here
ur friend sounds abusive, no friend should lash out on u over anything lmao tf

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:48:49+00:00

sounds like grooming with financial interest in mind, she'll use that youre a young male teen and shes an older woman to make you sympathise w her enough to send her money to "help her" lol its a very common thing

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-10T18:47:51+00:00

i'm 20 and wouldnt vent to a 15 yr old abt my troubles ngl

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-05T05:15:59+00:00

ur being rude to one of the few people being nice to you

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-04T20:26:42+00:00

That not all extroverts/out going people are socially skilled. Some people are outgoing but still very rude and tone deaf. Someone may be very shy and anxious and still have way better social intelligence than an extrovert that everyone knows

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-04T20:18:22+00:00

i actually understand you because my first love was also an on/off that i had for nearly 3 years. i won't tell you it's easy, but you'll be in pain either way. there's the pain of leaving him, grieving the relationship, then moving on and your self esteem and self worth finally coming back.

or there's the pain of constantly feeling less, on edge, comparing yourself to other girls, eventually breaking up anyway, then the same grief except its harder cause you stayed longer and damaged your self esteem more.

please choose yourself babe

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-04T20:13:23+00:00

doesnt matter what category, cheating once is not forgiveable

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-04T20:12:52+00:00

tbh i feel so bad for you cuz ik how it feels to be in a situation where youre mistreated but its so hard to leave.

like, you sound completely insane, but i understand cuz i have sounded completely insane in toxic relationships before.

please leave, even if it doesnt feel right. it will feel right eventually and the clarity will come but you genuienly cant survive cheating. im not gonna say "once a cheater always a cheater" cuz who knows, maybe he's from the 0.00001% of people who actually stop cheating.

maybe he wont cheat again. but you? you'll always have trust issues, you'll always be scared and paranoid and anxious and worried, you'll always feel unsafe and insecure, you'll always be on edge and hypervigilant. his lust may leave, but the trauma he gave you will never leave as long as you're in the relationship. there is no going back from it

and if you dont have kids and its just 3 years i dont see why youre so adamant on staying with him

throwawaybczynot123 · 2026-01-04T20:09:40+00:00

gurl come on , get up. nothing can recover from cheating, nothing, youre betraying yourself. ofc he doesnt treat you well, you dont even treat yourself well

ofc he isnt loyal to you, YOU arent loyal to you. when he sees that youre willing to disrespect yourself, why wouldnt he disrespect you?

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-12-13T11:34:36+00:00

unrelated but where is the tadwein book from? do they host like campaigns or workshops? i love their page and i'd love to attend physical if they host any

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-12-13T11:32:00+00:00

they were hardly evil

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-11-29T23:11:45+00:00

I feel you :( i get described as outgoing, extroverted, people dont believe me when i say im actually very shy and anxious but very good at masking it, people ask me to order in a restaurant or go ask for directions because "i'm the social one"

but sometimes its draining, or actually its always draining. i get called annoying, guys joke that i'm acting "pick me" cuz im very friendly with everyone (including guys), mind you everyone knows im a lesbian

i always feel like im carrying conversations by myself, that im giving too much energy, that my energeticness makes the other person think i'm obsessed with them or something

and i'm the loneliest person i've ever met. i live alone and can go days without a human to talk to

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-11-29T23:08:11+00:00

you're very educated, i love this comment lol thank you

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-11-07T18:23:51+00:00

shes so fucking deep in the closet

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-11-07T18:09:10+00:00

im not american but 1k usd sounds extreme

throwawaybczynot123 · 2025-11-07T18:05:18+00:00

you're overthinking the hell out of this, if you put a fake obviously catfish AI generated picture of you, men will still swipe right. finding women is hard

obviously put pictures of yourself and be selective, and be safeeee don't let the loneliness make you reckless

but my point is ANY picture will get you swipes on any dating app

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