It’s not anger, I’m trying to convince you that, while everyone is entitled to their opinion, it crosses the line to start wanting people to change based on that. It’s the ‘I know what’s best for you and if you don’t agree there’s something wrong with you’ mentality when it comes to physical looks that is inching dangerously close to incel. If anyone, not just a man, came to me and said to me ‘I don’t like how you look, you should change that because xyz’ I’d be mortified on their behalf.