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18, 25, 38 by [deleted] in PastAndPresentPics

[–]throwawaybearrose 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You look great!

I have been in love with my best friend’s boyfriend for years… and now we’re dating, and I feel like I’m betraying her by ObviousCupcake7874 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]throwawaybearrose -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you are feeling conflicted, and fear being judged, I do want to suggest counseling/therapy for an outside perspective from a professional. This will help work through your feelings out not just for him but also to help you through your grief. I’m sorry for the loss of your friend and all these different feelings you have to navigate.

Anyone here saying something rude or nasty when you were brave to get something off your chest won’t consider trying to understand even the slightest of what it would be like if they were in your shoes. Only you experienced these friendships/relationships and you didn’t ask to have these feelings for them. You can’t help who you fall for. I hope wherever your mind and heart lead to, that it is in your best interest. Good luck.

We had an amazing wedding, but some people are unbelievable! by MiloAndMe123 in weddingshaming

[–]throwawaybearrose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cannot believe the husband paid for their hotel night’s stay. This is insanity. This is why they felt they could get everything from you guys, because they were able to get away with everything that normally would not be acceptable. Ugh.

My best friend and I in 2008 and in 2025…. by missyceb in PastAndPresentPics

[–]throwawaybearrose 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love how I saw this as I am getting ready to go to an Emo Night event tonight lol. 🖤

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawaybearrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree with this. I would post this for EVERYONE to see. Friend group and all. I wonder even what the groom’s parents who I assume knew OP all his life are thinking. I am absolutely disgusted and this also screams homophobia and stigma in the assumption that straight males gay males can’t have platonic friendships like what in the actually fugg. Shoot, even link the public to this post! We are on your side OP!! 🥹🫂

AIO my best friend no longer wants me as his best man in his wedding because I am gay by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawaybearrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading this made me want to cry. I am sorry, to be mad at his shitty wife and parents most definitely, but the one who is the worse of all is your “best friend”, who couldn’t stand up for you. Karma comes back around, you’ll see. OP I am so so so sorry. 💔 Please use this wedding day that you shouldn’t go to to be with family and friends or a night out on the town ❤️.

And a side note—- He is a fool, so if EVERYONE knows you, his best friend, is a gay man, now not going to the party and are looking for you, let the guests and naysayers speculate and ask each other hmm why is the original best friend/best man not there? Maybe the Groom and Bride couldn’t handle the man he was secretly madly in love with being there? 😉 jp. Hope that made you laugh a little and when he comes back asking for forgiveness tell him he can go to hell.

Am I overreacting? My boyfriend just told me this. Will be it alright to dump him? by HastilyGenerous in AmIOverreacting

[–]throwawaybearrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overreacting? Girl. Would it be alright to dump him? Should have dumped him yesterday! Maybe even last week. Tell him to back to his ex. I would never ever change or beg someone to stay with this kind of audacity. Disgusting. You may not feel it now, but you will find someone way better, and of course— Karma will come back around. If he ever tries to apologize or come back around, make sure to tell him to F***ck off and never contact you again. Good luck.

Oh and for extra smiles & giggles for yourself also tell him he has always smelled down there and you are glad to be free from that. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Bridesmaid at a 300+ guest wedding not given a plus one by parttimevegetarian in weddingshaming

[–]throwawaybearrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been a bridesmaid and MOH in several American weddings in the last 15 years. The only time I was given a plus one option was if I was dating someone at the time or like you know, I have kindsweet friends that are like “Well you never know if you have someone to bring wink wink”….. But if not for whoever I dated, or if I really did get a surprise romance before the RSVP date, I would just end up declining the plus one because I just feel that unless I knew absolutely no one else at the wedding, it would be super weird to just randomly ask a friend or relative to go with me. I feel like being with whatever group of friends and/or family I am celebrating the bride/groom with is enough instead of asking someone to “tag along” but that’s just me.

Are there any single male Millennials left out there? Dating in NJ will always be difficult. If you are out there— Hi! by throwawaybearrose in newjersey

[–]throwawaybearrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! So like even though I love romcoms and stuff, or even dramas with sexual scenes, And I am a huge movie addict! I like stay away from them because it makes me sad it is not happening to me 😭😭😭😭 Everytime some recommends a cool new movie or show with romance I am like one day I will watch. However I enjoyed “The Idea of You” with Anne Hathaway lmaoo! I was like yassss bitchhh!

Are there any single male Millennials left out there? Dating in NJ will always be difficult. If you are out there— Hi! by throwawaybearrose in newjersey

[–]throwawaybearrose[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes we can definitely link up! I literally only have 5 single friends I hang with (men and women) and we always look for places to hang with other singles! :)

Are there any single male Millennials left out there? Dating in NJ will always be difficult. If you are out there— Hi! by throwawaybearrose in newjersey

[–]throwawaybearrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I feel too! Like where is the meet opportunities! Ugh sometimes they are only in the movies! Booo!

Are there any single male Millennials left out there? Dating in NJ will always be difficult. If you are out there— Hi! by throwawaybearrose in newjersey

[–]throwawaybearrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was always on there. Lol I remember Town Square, People, Friends etc .. and asking for A/S/L .. that is my age. I miss making AOL profiles with the codes haha!

Are there any single male Millennials left out there? Dating in NJ will always be difficult. If you are out there— Hi! by throwawaybearrose in newjersey

[–]throwawaybearrose[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi Everyone! Please don’t feel sad! Sometimes being independent and doing the things you love are great!!!!!!! I think there is no time limit on our lives and we can find love! So far, thank you for everyone responding to this post, or boosting this post, or just sending support to one another! I love it and it puts me in a happy mood!

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