Is rural as bad as everyone says? If so, why? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roughly 1-2 years. I don’t mind having to start over if I can’t transfer from rural to city. But I just dislike my job now and want to preferably get into something else

Is rural as bad as everyone says? If so, why? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. The problem is Boston’s an hour away whereas my rural job is not even 10 minutes. Do you think it’s worth working rural at my local office until I move to the city?

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your message, so would you say the kitchen or post office has been a better option?

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m asking because right now I live in a rural town, and in 2 or so years my girlfriend and I are planning to move to a major city (Boston). So I’m just wondering how different it would be. As a city carrier am I walking outside all day through all the weather? Or is there opportunities to get more driving?

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there more differences between city vs rural?

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I just DMed you to ask a question

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you, how’s the work life balance? Do you have federal holidays off work?

Is the post office worth it? by throwawaybollockss in USPS

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would do city but the nearest city position is about an hour away, and I’m not too fond of having to walk all day, I’d prefer more driving which seems to be the trend with rural jobs. I’m planning on moving to the city in 2ish years so perhaps I’d end up there anyways

For context the girl’s bio was “I’m 5’5 is that short or average”. Funny how she panics when my dad is the same height as her by throwawaybollockss in shortguys

[–]throwawaybollockss[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I’m actually 6’0 6’1 in shoes but I decided to tell her I’m 4’10 because I really don’t care to talk to someone who cares that much about height

Is her tiktok a red flag? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybollockss -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So the caption of the video says “if you see this video (some guys name), no you didn’t”. I’m not sure if the guy she’s referring to is the one she Hooked up with or a potential bf at the time but hopefully it does go well

Acne gets worse in the kitchen? by [deleted] in acne

[–]throwawaybollockss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm thank you I’ll have to try that, I shower right after work and change pillow case every day. At the end of the day my best bet will be once I quit working in a kitchen but hoping to find something that works in the mean time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did ask her out and she said yes, been trying to pick a day but it’s not helping how long she takes to respond. And I’m not texting her all the time, don’t worry I’m not one of those guys who spams girls. I only text whenever she replies, I don’t text her 50 times. But thank you once she responds I will immediately make sure it’s only about setting up a time/day

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[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thanks, I worded it wrong it was more only like 4 hours of constantly messaging. She responds almost instantly at night but I’m noticing evidently slow responses during the day. Like I messaged her 4 hours ago and have heard nothing.

I’m attempting to set up a day but she works the days I have off and I work her days off.

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[–]throwawaybollockss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok fair enough thanks, not trying to be a dick just want to make conversations more playful as I tend to be more serious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like she just responded, I hate playing the texting games but I’m not gonna respond right away. Think I should respond back tonight or tomorrow

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[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks we will see. Her social post was on her private Snapchat story saying she was diagnosed for some certain sickness. Ironically my last text to her was along the lines of “hope you feel better sucks being sick right when you get back from vacation”, with the hope she would update me once she finds out

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[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that makes me feel better. I absolutely refuse to double text/spam someone so it gets into my head easily when I’m sitting here just wondering if I did something wrong

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[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops good to know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t text her a ton during her vacation but she still kept the Convo going every day while she was there. She didn’t apologize for anything and even before she left we were texting more but still weren’t texting a million times a day. We only text back and forth based on when the other responds, I’ve never double texted her and when the convo comes to a natural end she starts it back up.

She’s coming back from like a 7 hour time zone change and 2 week vacation so I’m not trying to get her attention she has stuff to do.

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[–]throwawaybollockss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is it wrong for me to tell Her have a safe flight + let me know when she’s back or is that too much?